being unfaithful in your marriage...

[ll_xx_ll]

umm ok

@Uzziel

I was molested by older women at my work. Not that I disliked it.
But If you ask me, I liked them too but ,I was too scared to make any move.
Its them who wanted more attention then their hubby were giving them.

Whole cheating things comes very eaily/naturally at work place.

Some indian women are so shameless unless they get caught going at it, they always have excuse to have
some male around them. They some time cover it up calling them brothers.
I had 2 rakhi on my wrist once.

White women are more open, so are their hubbies. Hubby make it clear that they don’t want
a man around in any form.

At one point I loved women who cheated. Not any more thogh. I hate them now.

[Niksik]

@PyariCgudia

But niksik, meeting up with old college friends, for example, can be done with your spouse.

I don’t know. We have plenty of married couples at our college, and no one never comes out because God forbid, they’d be with single people. They try to bring their spouses along and its nice seeing everybody. Doesn’t mean you’re going to end up cheating.

Meeting in a group setting is totally different. I am talking about “let’s meet up for coffee, just you and me ”

[ll_xx_ll]

Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...

^^ lol i like the eyebrow smiley at the end hahahaha\

cracks me up heheehhe

[Tayyebeh]

Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...

Well there's enough Desi guys who cheat on their wives. At least here there are plenty of them. It's mostly because they were "forced" to marry their wives. In my opinion that's no excuse to cheat on her, I mean she was "forced" also, plus she wouldn'd dare to cheat. The wife is good for home and kid, but when it comes to the intimate stuff they prefer sexually open girls who do ANYTHING for them, actually everything the wife won't do.

[PatriotX]

Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...

^ when you say "forced" do you mean "arranged match" ? because in this day n age there are no forced marriages, its just a very very convenient excuse used by men (and women) to eliminate any guilt for straying.

[Deeba1234]

@PatriotX

^ when you say “forced” do you mean “arranged match” ? **because in this day n age there are no forced marriages, **its just a very very convenient excuse used by men (and women) to eliminate any guilt for straying.

Are u serious???

I actually know of a school in London where they have a policeman specifically there to deal with girls (and boys) who fear they’re about to be forced into marriage.

**'The Forced Marriage Unit, run jointly by the Home Office and Foreign Office, received 1,600 reports last year - and intervened in 420 actual cases. ****Overall, there are estimated to be at least 5,000 cases of forced marriage, but it is impossible to know for certain. **

In some cases, a specialist British team launched secret rescue missions to repatriate victims held captive by their families abroad’

Source: BBC NEWS | UK | Forced marriage plea to schools

The FMU says 65 percent of known cases involve Pakistan, 25 percent Bangladesh, a small percentage India, with the rest spread across the globe.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...

British ghetto pakis. They continue to roshan the name of Pakistan

[Deeba1234]

Well there's enough Desi guys who cheat on their wives. At least here there are plenty of them. It's mostly because they were "forced" to marry their wives. In my opinion that's no excuse to cheat on her, I mean she was "forced" also, plus she wouldn'd dare to cheat. The wife is good for home and kid, but when it comes to the intimate stuff they prefer sexually open girls who do ANYTHING for them, actually everything the wife won't do.

There was a case over here in London a few months back where a desi girl who'd allegedly been forced into marriage started seeing a European man behind hubby's back. The man ended up having acid poured down his throat :(

[PatriotX]

@Deeba1234

Are u serious???

I actually know of a school in London where they have a policeman specifically there to deal with girls (and boys) who fear they’re about to be forced into marriage.

**'The Forced Marriage Unit, run jointly by the Home Office and Foreign Office, received 1,600 reports last year - and intervened in 420 actual cases. ****Overall, there are estimated to be at least 5,000 cases of forced marriage, but it is impossible to know for certain. **

In some cases, a specialist British team launched secret rescue missions to repatriate victims held captive by their families abroad’

Source: BBC NEWS | UK | Forced marriage plea to schools

The FMU says 65 percent of known cases involve Pakistan, 25 percent Bangladesh, a small percentage India, with the rest spread across the globe.

@Deeba1234

There was a case over here in London a few months back where a desi girl who’d allegedly been forced into marriage started seeing a European man behind hubby’s back. The man ended up having acid poured down his throat

i stand corrected!

[Sara516]

Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...

Um, its all about the intentions.....and knowing your limits...

If you have the best intentions, meeting with a friend of an opposite gender, o chatting with them, should NOT lead to anything worse.

[Tayyebeh]

^ when you say "forced" do you mean "arranged match" ? because in this day n age there are no forced marriages, its just a very very convenient excuse used by men (and women) to eliminate any guilt for straying.

Well, they use "force of the family" as an excuse(most of those "cool modern guys" would never admit that they agreed to an arranged marriage).

My friend(who is Pakistani) had a girl(she was gori) in her class who had an affair with a married Pakistani guy, the girl told her "My BF likes his wife, she is good for the kids takes well care of the home but he has no feelings for her" anyways they are seperated by now.

There's also been cases here about several Pakistani girls running away from home in order to escape a possible "forced"/arranged marriage to cousins or whatsoever. Some of them had BFs before so maybe they had quite a reason to be scared.

[hareem01]

Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...

Men should make it clear to their women that they are allowed to go with the man of their liking only after the divorce. That'll set the limits and women[even those who were forced in marriage] won't feel restricted.