Re: being unfaithful in your marriage...
reading uzziel's comments with a grain of salt, as its clearly looking like he's a multinick
Decent Chora: I don't know of married men/women who just randomly hang out with one person of the opposite sex to the point where it looks suspicious. The married couples I've seen - they will go out to dawats and gatherings as a couple. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Otherwise, I'm not sure what you guys are talking about. I don't know of anyone really, who cheats. If it does happen in the desi community, it is exceedingly rare, and there are issues in those marriages to begin with.