Being submissive spouse.

Lifestyle Relationships
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Is it bad to be submissive in a relationship ? Why yes and why no ?
Write a 1000 word blog entry on this topic.

It keeps peace in the household. It makes life worry and headaches free. Doctor ka bill kum ata hay. Kharch kum hota hay waghaira , waghaira.

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Re: Being submissive spouse.

Why a blog entry? :hmmm:

Yes, I think it is beneficial to be submissive. A lot of people confuse submission as being a doormat and that’s when all the problems set in. However, submission means not being rebelious. It doesn’t mean you don’t have an opinion but it means not being opinionated.

Husband and wife should be in submission to each other. That’s where the power is. So confusing huh?

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:omg: Whats the prize for the winning entry?

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A lifetiem supply of hari and lal mirchain :@:

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:hehe: about blog entry. I have heard that there are so many good bloggers on these boards , but they are open by invitation only so I am counting on that they might like my idea of a blog entry and will add me to their blog. :halo:

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Re: Being submissive spouse.

Oh yeah, coming from Mirch's own backyard haan?

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If you’re submissive by nature then that's fine...(to some degree)
But if you feel you have to be submissive to make the relationship work then that's not right! You should really think if you acting like a zombie with no free will is worth keeping your partner non confrontational…because there isn’t anything wrong with a good healthy argument!

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You are included in my blog already. Per aap aatey hi nahin hain :naraz:

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LOL , it is too much work to maintain a good backyard so , this year I ain't going to plant any seasonal stuff. So no hari or laal mirchain for anyone.
This season I am launching a new business venture and would like it to grow.

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:smack: Nobody likes to be submissive, you HAVE to become submissive. Marriage isn’t a self propelled engine, we need to work it.

Being submissive isn’t being a doormat that doesn’t have free will. A lot of times women or men who want too much freedom are the ones complaining.

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Saaaaaaaaaary , I did not know , I promised to visit and post comments.

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submissive to me means...not argumentative, easily influenced and obedient and some people are like this by nature! And there content with it...i'm not joking!

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[quote="“girly_girl_786, post:17, topic:216805"”]

If you’re submissive by nature then that’s fine…(to some degree)
But if you feel you have to be submissive to make the relationship work then that’s not right! You should really think if you acting like a zombie with no free will is worth keeping your partner non confrontational…because there isn’t anything wrong with a good healthy argument!
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You are so right.

[quote="“Niksik, post:2736, topic:215842"”]

:smack: Nobody likes to be submissive, you HAVE to become submissive. Marriage isn’t a self propelled engine, we need to work it.

Being submissive isn’t being a doormat that doesn’t have free will. A lot of times women or men who want too much freedom are the ones complaining.
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You are not wrong either.

You are right too brother.

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I am understanding and considerate but not submissive. I dont turn arguments into fight. Submissive spouse leads the other one no where...

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Yeah I am that kind of a guy , that is why there is so much peace in my home. And I love it.

See the thing is I do not get influenced easily , I am not obedient either , and I do not argue too much but my wife and I are always on same page on everything. We do communicate , we do like to talk the talk and walk the walks , but it never turn into heated debate or argument and if I give in to what she wants to accomplish or she respects my wish it does not give her or me a heartache.

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that's really sweet Mirch! Well you know if its working for you then may as well keep doing what your doing! :)

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Let us start a understanding and considerate husbands club.:D

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can i be self-proclaimed "quaid-e-tehreek" for this club?

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By all means.

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That is not true. We knew of a submissive wife, poor woman went to hospital every year for a delivery. 10 kids in eleven years, kid you not.