but i cant think straight at the moment so I’ll post it here..
how is it that when men get sick, they cannot cope with anything at all? They mope like 2 year olds.. actually, even my 2.5 year old doesnt give me that much drama… she’ll whinge and moan a lil, but nothing a lil distraction cant solve… where as tha man… dont get me started
when im sick, the only thing… the ONLY thing i am exempt from is cooking/cleaning… actually not even cleaning. Cus when im sick, i want everythign clean so i will go about picking things up, washing things. I still bathe the bubz, look after all her needs.. everything.
Whereas the man… life just stops. Period.
Obviously, men and women are phsyically different. But considering, they are a lot bigger than us (in most cases.. maybe not in the older desi generation where women are about 10kg heavier).. why do they not cope better than us?
love to be pampered...thats the time when wives are kinder and gentler i guess so they exploit it to teh fullest haha. women get attention 24/7 i suppose! bhaiyo, saHeeH farmaayaa na maiN ne?
Not really true I have to say, my husband even if he is sick will still go to work, he will do the work in the home, this weekend he had fever, headache and a bad stomach, monday he went off to work, where as I would have taken the whole week off.
i think some men are like that because males in general and brought up to be the "tough guy", so they like the babying any chance they get. they like the pampering and they like to act like they're dying when they just have a fever. i don't have a husband but i know many men like that. if my future husband acts the same way, i don't think i'd really mind, if he wants to be babied, i'll baby him :-) (only if works both ways ofcourse)
I remember a nurse telling me that she had noticed how men are usually the bigger babies when it comes to getting blood tests. Perhaps this was JUST her own experience...............but it was funny.
Although I'm none too fond of needles myself but for the most part, they're bearable.
It could have to do with upbrining. Is some desi families, the one and only son, is the laadla and pampered rotten. And in other desi families.....sons.....(regardless of their number).......are generally pampered and spoiled and babied. So they get used to this treatment.
Well there are both kind of men, the ones who wouldnt utter the world and the ones who would let hell loose. Its all about how lucky you get in getting the Mr Right :p