Financial responsibility doesnt fall into the same category as does managing household chores.
That man earns the bread and feeds the family is the responsibility he is born with. Just as a woman is supposed to give birth to the children and take care of them. Acha chalo lets put this giving birth phenomenon aside since its only a biological fact. How many mothers have you seen who “depend” on others/parents/siblings/inlaws etc for taking care of children. I guess very very less. No one is that angel here Nomi, that they will lend a hand in your responsibilities, for long and without any reason.
No one expects from a mother to hand her children over to others and play carelessly. Now, if some doesnt, she is cursed from all sides at being an insensitive and calreless mother and whatnot.
AS far as a working mother/wife is concerned, she is already doing double jobs. Even then, as per my own observation, i havent honestly seen many mothers or mils who would solely take care and nurse the kids in the absence of the mother. Most have to arrange maids for that. Even those mothers or mils who do, they do it more out of their own maternal /paternal love for the kid. Since the woman doesnt bring the kid along from her work place, does she?
So a guy is responsible to take care of the finances by himself.......if he somewhat depends on parents,siblings,in-laws or lives in parents house etc etc............
he is always termed here as
not a real man,
mama's boy,
not cutting the apron strings...etc
so....
does it hold true for working women too??
who depend on their parents,mil,siblings when it comes to taking care of kids/house??
take a bow bro, for once again bringing out to the fore, the finer / subtler aspects of gender discrimination!
what age are you talking about? in this day and age, men and women alike can choose to whatever they like
Financial responsibility doesnt fall into the same category as does managing household chores.
That man earns the bread and feeds the family is the responsibility he is born with. Just as a woman is supposed to give birth to the children and take care of them.
Nomi, my point is that responsibility isn't just about finances. Anyway, carry on.
i am not contesting tht.....i didn't mean that finances are the only responsibility......i am saying its one of the major ones.......i am not saying that a man is done with his end of the deal if he only manages finances.........
