Re: Being open and intimate
excellent topic.
open minded ness does not have to translate to open marriages. high infidelity & a sense of utter disregard is an absolute bad thing for each other, everyone knows it, but sadly very few take a note of what is going on so wrong by BOTH spouses, as most of the blame and claim games is busily played while the relationship is destroyed.
kindness will go only so far, i suspect. but being humble and consistent in a predictably fair behavior will ease much of the tension.