Requires great strength, a big heart and a willingness to forgive.
and ... ?
being 'flexy and sexy' also helps :p
ahmedjee bas itna hi kehna tha! I'm trying to practise all those things, but my blood starts boiling every time I think of it!
funguy, yeah it sure does come in handy sometimes!
wronged? what like take away your birthright or kill your cattle or just someone who sneezes in your face by mistake.
Yes most would agree all three instances are punishable by a slow and painful death, but not me I think 20 lashes with a copy of a sunday broadsheet and a fine would be enough.
hey Chaucer, I chose to use the word 'wronged' because I feel it has more 'oomph'.
it's a strong word come on then what happened? someone bully you out of your milk money?
lol yea something like that. I'm a sensitive soul!
not really. it all depends, on the person, and situation.
sometimes it requires much more strength to keep the hate flames alive and true willingness to not forget.
however, if the person affects u a lot in life, than there is always the lovely mahawara to fit the situation, something to do with being dumb enough to get bitten twice.
I can't hold a grudge. Even if someone is mean to me but does one little thing out of the blue that's nice, I forgive and be nice to them and am so embarrassed for even thinking bad thoughts about them.
Sarah I used to be like that too, still am in some ways. I always look to see the positive side of things. But the **** has finally hit the fan in this case.
Catty you're all that..big hearted and patient...everytime I want to tear someones head off for the pain inflicted upon me I remember that I'll be harming one of God's creations...
It's depends if he/she wronged me so bad i surely dont forgive
that person.
You're right LK, its such a big energy waster to having negative feelings against someone. Im just trying to be strong!
I get so angry at some ppl i could do some serious physical harm!!(mainly men!), but iv always got this teeny tiny hope that if im nice to them.. one day maybe they will realise and change...its probs never gona happen but one can always hope!