how it feels if u are on SIRAAT E MUSTAQEEM on ur whole life…save ur virginity and purity for ur spouse only…and after that ur future partner says ‘’ BEING SHAREEF AND NAIK IS NOT EVERYTHING’'… how it feels? who is going to give you reward…if ALLAH likes such ppl when he will give reward for this?
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In every society there are people with different social/moral values. Take this for example, all life you stayed on right path, but there are many people who chose the other path. In this case you joined path with later type of people. your chosen path basically was not to please your spouse but to please a far greater authority. As long as you keep that in mind, nothing is lost.
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if u did it [stayed shareef] for Allah then don't care, ur reward is with Allah and u KNOW u r right! isii liye kahaa hai k shareef kii shaadii shareef se ho, badkaar kii badkaar se, moHsin kii moHsinaat se...
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Being honest to who you are is everything. Who cares what others say?
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You're not being shereef or naik for your husaband/wife, you're doing it for Allah(swt) and at the end of the say it's Allah(swt)'s judgement that counts the most.
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You're not being shereef or naik for your husaband/wife, you're doing it for Allah(swt) and at the end of the say it's Allah(swt)'s judgement that counts the most.
u r right...but sometimes u want to b liked by at least ur spouse
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This is understandable... but at the end of the day you determine your own path, and if you stick to the path of shirafat take comfort that your on a rightous path and that ultimate victory is yours.
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how it feels if u are on SIRAAT E MUSTAQEEM on ur whole life....save ur virginity and purity for ur spouse only.....and after that ur future partner says '' BEING SHAREEF AND NAIK IS NOT EVERYTHING''.... how it feels? who is going to give you reward....if ALLAH likes such ppl when he will give reward for this?
What was the context in which it was said? It depends. For instance, I often hear people say that praying is not everything. Whether I'll agree with the person saying it or not depends on what they mean by it. Some people say it implying that praying is not important because it's not everything. Others imply that just because you might be doing it, it doesn't mean that you're absolved from all other responsibilities. I'll agree with the latter but not the former.
Without knowing what the person who told it is implying, I can only guess that they said it meaning that just because you've looked after that aspect doesn't mean you've got everything else covered as well.
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it wasnt for offering prayers ....coz i m not regular in offering prayers....i have moderate values....but other things i try to avoid
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how it feels if u are on SIRAAT E MUSTAQEEM on ur whole life....save ur virginity and purity for ur spouse only.....and after that ur future partner says '' BEING SHAREEF AND NAIK IS NOT EVERYTHING''.... how it feels? who is going to give you reward....if ALLAH likes such ppl when he will give reward for this?
Being shareef and naik is everything.......
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The prayers part is only an analogy. The whole point was that there are two ways in which I've heard people say something like that. Either they are saying that they don't value it at all or that they do value it but it's not the only thing they look at.
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its not everything. there is more to a happy married life than just finding a virgin.
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Are you keeping yourself pure for Allah's sake and His reward.......OR.......are you only doing this because you want the approval of some guy (your future husband)? It depends on WHY you decide to something naik and WHOM you are doing it for.
Also, if your definition of naik is being a virgin.........then there are many people in this who are virgin or were virgin until marriage and are real chitheads. Plus, being a virgin doesn't guarantee that a person will make a good spouse or that you'd even have a successful marriage.
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u r right...but sometimes u want to b liked by at least ur spouse
That's a weird comment. Do you want your husband to bow down and give you some sort of certificate or trophy for being a virgin until marriage? If religion is the basis upon which you decided to guard your virginity, then seek your reward from Allah.
What guarantee do you have that your husband was a virgin? I'm not saying that he wasn't. But he could lie about it as well. It's not hard to do. You could marry a virgin guy and he could make the worst husband.
Also, your husband could just be making a general comment; I don't think that he was deliberately trying to invalidate your beliefs. And he hasn't said anything wrong. He was thinking in a broader way. Being a virgin is not a ticket to heaven.....it doesn't necessarily make you a good human being.....it doesn't guarantee that someone will make a good spouse.
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BEING SHAREEF AND NAIK IS NOT EVERYTHING''
He did not say its nothing, he said its not everything. He is right, its not everything. Its a major part of positive traits but a shareef/naik person can still be judgmental, shak'kee, nosy and more.
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being anything is not everything...its not nothing, but its not everything, it may be something, may be really something to some, may be nothing to some, but it is not everything, even if it is the most important thing to a person, to them it may be everything, but its perception, it is not everything, it is just something, and the level of importance of this something can vary by individuals, and even if it is the same, the amount of everything else that makes up an individuals view of what everything else is...also varies
now I will go drink some more
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That's a weird comment. Do you want your husband to bow down and give you some sort of certificate or trophy for being a virgin until marriage? If religion is the basis upon which you decided to guard your virginity, then seek your reward from Allah.
What guarantee do you have that your husband was a virgin? I'm not saying that he wasn't. But he could lie about it as well. It's not hard to do. You could marry a virgin guy and he could make the worst husband.
Also, your husband could just be making a general comment; I don't think that he was deliberately trying to invalidate your beliefs. And he hasn't said anything wrong. He was thinking in a broader way. Being a virgin is not a ticket to heaven.....it doesn't necessarily make you a good human being.....it doesn't guarantee that someone will make a good spouse.
i have not emphasis on virginity....if u readmy post carefully i have mensioned that being on sirat e mustaqeem obviously if u avoid such things its a part of right path of Allah too
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i have not emphasis on virginity....if u readmy post carefully i have mensioned that being on sirat e mustaqeem obviously if u avoid such things its a part of right path of Allah too
It is only a PART of being on sirat e mustaqeem. Just one part. Being on sirat e mustaqeem is not only about avoiding premarital sex. It can also include other things such as being honest, humble, generous, praying namaz, fasting, giving to the poor, etc. The point is.....do you stay on sirat e mustaqeem (do various good things, etc) for Allah's sake or do you do it to be appreciated by your spouse.? Who do you hope for a reward from? What is your neeyat? This is the point that others have also made in your thread....it's the same point that your husband was trying to make.....jo k tumhay samajh main nahin aa raha.
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Porcelain doll, I think I have n idea what u r asking.
Are you saying that a person (woman) has to be virtuous, and pious, and pure her whole life. And then when she is married, she has to be not so naik and shareef within the marriage? I mean she cannot be virtuous and clean and not interested, all of a sudden.
Is that what u r saying hmm?
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but you also gotta be rich, good looking and educated....baat tab banti hai. (me think)