is that any different in comparison from being a kaali pakistani??
or
lets say…chhotay kadd ki pakistani
or bohat lambi pakistani? or patlee/kamzor..
i mean..in terms of social stigma and aunty talk..
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what about being patli, dubli, nazuk, gori pakistani. 
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As long as it's not jaali Pakistani....s'all good.
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As long as it's not jaali Pakistani....s'all good.
you mean net pakistani/fake pakistani
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aunty’s who have issues with all the above should know that no ones perfect since most of them are chubby,short and not so gori themselves.
(yes i said auntys because they are always discussing girls like they are going to a grocery store to buy fruits 
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Yeah aunties always talk about "chand see baho"
Oye jhalee-a Apnay munday noo wee weekh , fittay munh hay ga.
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Oye jhalee-a Apnay muday noo wee weekh , fittay munh hay ga.
LOL
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I cant stand people who are over weight because of them neglecting to look after themselves.
If it is health related issue or other disorder then I can understand. If not get of your lazy asses and do some exercise. No sympathy here.
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WHY are chubby girls a stigma. You never know how many of them are putting up such an effort to reduce but their slow metabolism makes it real hard for them. Somebody I know very well is going through this. She's about 23 5'5" in height, wheatish complexion and has very pretty features but so far just because of being overweight she's not had any good rishtas. As a person she's a complete gem with an incredible sense of humour. Even the bald and fairly chubby guys' mums had their nakhras. Why look at the girls physical faults yet never finding any in their own darling sons?
Now because of this she has been losing self esteem and has started getting aloof and tends to stay up in the room. And she's putting such an effort to work out!
It's very unfair IMO.
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Everyone should aim to be healthy. The girls that are actively trying I have no issue with. It's the ones who don't take notice and are a burden on the health service. You can't ask the guy to marry a girl he doesn't find attractive...It can be considered small minded to look at one thing alone but sometimes its just that one thing that breaks the deal/
When I say this I include girls and boys. In no way is this directed towards girls alone.
iA your friend will achieve what she has set out to do...
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Being a moti Pakistani should be a plus…
Bachay bhi achay gol matol hongay 
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WHY are chubby girls a stigma. You never know how many of them are putting up such an effort to reduce but their slow metabolism makes it real hard for them. Somebody I know very well is going through this. She's about 23 5'5" in height, wheatish complexion and has very pretty features but so far just because of being overweight she's not had any good rishtas. As a person she's a complete gem with an incredible sense of humour. Even the bald and fairly chubby guys' mums had their nakhras. Why look at the girls physical faults yet never finding any in their own darling sons?
Now because of this she has been losing self esteem and has started getting aloof and tends to stay up in the room. And she's putting such an effort to work out!
It's very unfair IMO.
Ummm, has she always been overweight or just suddenly started gaining weight at some point???
is that any different in comparison from being a kaali pakistani?? or lets say....chhotay kadd ki pakistani
or bohat lambi pakistani? or patlee/kamzor..
i mean..in terms of social stigma and aunty talk..
Being moti and Pakistani isn't any different than being moti and white...or moti and european...(except for being fat and black/Hispanic....)
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Ummm, has she always been overweight or just suddenly started gaining weight at some point???
Being moti and Pakistani isn't any different than being moti and white...or moti and european...(except for being fat and black/Hispanic....)
Could you clarify what you mean by this? Why exactly is there a difference for black/Hispanic people?
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Could you clarify what you mean by this? Why exactly is there a difference for black/Hispanic people?
They're more accepting of different body types...being "curvy" is valued in their culture (not that curvy and fat are interchangeable!)...being overweight is not as acceptable amongst whites (including American and europeans) because it doesn't fit their ideal bodytype.
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being moti and pakistani is not something bad. I think moti pakistanies are prospers. :@:
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WHY are chubby girls a stigma. You never know how many of them are putting up such an effort to reduce but their slow metabolism makes it real hard for them. Somebody I know very well is going through this. She's about 23 5'5" in height, wheatish complexion and has very pretty features but so far just because of being overweight she's not had any good rishtas. As a person she's a complete gem with an incredible sense of humour. Even the bald and fairly chubby guys' mums had their nakhras. Why look at the girls physical faults yet never finding any in their own darling sons?
It's very unfair IMO.
yeah this one guy came over to my friend's house for her rishta (she's GORGEOUS but a little on the chubby side) but saw the super skinny younger sister and straight up was interested in the younger girl instead. DISGUSTING.
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So.....do kaali girls have it worse than motees or patlee/kamzor ones ???