Re: Being friends with your Ex
Send him an e-mail telling him that you do not want to continue keeping in touch with him. Let him know that you do not want him to contact you in any form. And that if he attempts to contact you, then you will contact his wife AND his parents and let him know about it. After that, change your phone number, block him on your e-mail and IM’s etc. Oh and be a grown woman and stick to your words. Meaning if he does contact you or show up at your workplace…do NOT hesitate to contact his parents and/or wife and let them know that you’re being harassed by him.
Stop living in the past. Whatever happened is done with. The FACT is that he’s married and sharing a bed with his wife every night. There is nothing wrong with being friends with a ex AS LONG as both parties agree that the friendship is platonic and they have moved on from their past. Clearly in this case, he wants to be more than friends and so do you.
Exactly. Personally I’m a big believer in karma. How would you feel if you found out that your husband had a mistress on the side? Someone he was having an emotional affair with and was sexually attracted to? B/C guess what…in this situation, YOU are that other woman. So have some respect for yourself and stop being in touch with a MARRIED man who has made it clear that he wants more than a platonic friendship with you.