Re: Being dupli patli pakistani
Yup I get that those comments as well…and sometimes even “you look kamzor”…and not only from aunties…from cousins within my age range. But gain about 5-10 pounds and they’ll tell you to lose the weight. You can’t win.
At first I used to think that they it’s just plain tactlessness…but then I found that the people making such comments don’t like it when they’re told the same things. So that makes me think…“If you don’t like it when the same is said to you, then that means you are aware that such comments are not nice. And if you have that awareness, then perhaps your intentions are not in the right place when you say the same things to others.” It’s something to think about. I know that this isn’t the case for everyone…some people are just showing genuine concern. I’m referring more to the ones that hardly ever have anything positive to say and can’t handle it when it comes their way.