Being away from your Spouse..

queen_24 · November 18, 2011, 5:17pm

..so what are the problems you face being away from your spouse.. apart from missing him.. which is obvious

I am talking by the inlaws and other such sort of perspective!!

KKF · November 18, 2011, 5:20pm

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Allah kaa shukr adaa karnaa chaahiye k **'aish-baa-faraaGhat ke maze"**** naseeb hai...agar vo hote to socheN kitne kaam baRh jaate! :)**

Nisha25 · November 18, 2011, 5:21pm

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question: why are you away from your spouse? i don't know the whole background of your story, i do remember you met him online but some details about why there is a separation between you two love birds would be appreciated.

immediate response without knowing anything about your situation would be pay him a surprise visit if you're residing in the same country

STA · November 18, 2011, 5:21pm

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in case of rukhsati, one should deal them with care and let them know that you are the part of family and you like them. :@:

STA · November 18, 2011, 5:23pm

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i feel you need little tuning.

ShahreyarKhan · November 18, 2011, 5:52pm

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apart of the obvious problems, there are some not-so-obvious problems

tranquil · November 18, 2011, 7:10pm

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my spouse in saath samandar paar away. i came back to the west after 6 months of marriage to complete my last semester at school, and he's missing me badly. the thing with him is that, he lives with parents and he doesn't get along well with them, so there is little interaction between them. when i was there, i used to be the one bridging gaps between them, now they all don't talk to each other at all (from what he's told me ) and he's missing me ten fold, because of being so lonely. we don't have many friends there, we only had each other, so i feel guilty for not being there with him (and he frequently blames me for not being done with school earlier, and rightly so : ) ) but we chat everyday for hours. i miss him a lot though. my husband says my MIL misses me, she's a sweet lady and gets lonely,. but she's not the kind of person who would even dream of trying to stop me if i had to go away to meet my parents or for any other reason. my FIL is just as chill. i don't have the typical in-laws situation at my home at all. so yeah , no drama from there side. if anything my MIL wishes i had taken my husband with me lol.

queen_24 · November 18, 2011, 8:20pm

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Ya Khudaya!!

its a general question

tranquil:

my spouse in saath samandar paar away. i came back to the west after 6 months of marriage to complete my last semester at school, and he’s missing me badly. the thing with him is that, he lives with parents and he doesn’t get along well with them, so there is little interaction between them. when i was there, i used to be the one bridging gaps between them, now they all don’t talk to each other at all (from what he’s told me ) and he’s missing me ten fold, because of being so lonely. we don’t have many friends there, we only had each other, so i feel guilty for not being there with him (and he frequently blames me for not being done with school earlier, and rightly so : ) ) but we chat everyday for hours. i miss him a lot though. my husband says my MIL misses me, she’s a sweet lady and gets lonely,. but she’s not the kind of person who would even dream of trying to stop me if i had to go away to meet my parents or for any other reason. my FIL is just as chill. i don’t have the typical in-laws situation at my home at all. so yeah , no drama from there side. if anything my MIL wishes i had taken my husband with me lol.

aw…sho cute I wish you be together soon… InshAllah

mirage · November 19, 2011, 11:15am

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Like?

queen_24 · November 19, 2011, 10:09pm

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yeah, like??