Re: Being away from parents....
what will you do if your husband has to move away after marriage..........you can hardly predict what life has in store for you..........
I hate to agree with you here :( but its the truth. That's the same i get told by my parents that never say never cuz there can be all kinds of situations in life.
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They are obviously concerned but not to a extent that they start feeling sad about it. They ask, i give them the reason.. and im happy they understand Alhumdolillah.
That's fine then.
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:k:
+1
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Y’know I agree with you, the thought of even moving out scares me because I don’t want to leave my mum let alone get married and probably move to a different area altogether. I dunno much to say, but I hope you find someone who understands that and is flexible about your location. 
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It is scary, at times the mere thought of me getting married & moving away makes me shiver! However, you don't know what is in your kismet, & if everything else seems good, you may just accept a rishta which means you moving away. It's not so bad though, my mum says she is quite looking forward to having a new holiday destination, inshallah so she can visit me lots. :)
Re: Being away from parents....
girls.......get a GHAR DAMAAD......you will live with your parents forever after..
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^ For some reason that doesn't appeal to me so much either! :-p
After spending so much time & effort bringing me up, I wouldn't want them to have to baby the person I marry.
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they wouldn’t baby him…you will…he will do khidmat of your parents n stuff…
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Why do I feel I KNOW you? 2 sisters, the way you write, your situation...
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You never know where you're destined to be. You might find a great guy who lives in the same city as you and then several years into the marriage you and him might end up moving to another state or even country for various reasons such as career, etc. Finding someone who lives in the same city as you and your parents is no guarantee that you'll always stay in that area. Just something to think about.
You know i am trying my best to say yes to someone who lives in the same city as me, after that is done even if destiny takes me somewhere else i wont regret the fact that i never tried! =)
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I hope you also find someone who lives close to your mom’s place! =)
Well thats a nice way to look at it! =)
Are you up for it?
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Why do I feel I KNOW you? 2 sisters, the way you write, your situation...
Maybe.
Btw there are alot of girls out there who feel the same as me =)
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Are you up for it?
nopes......
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girls.......get a GHAR DAMAAD......you will live with your parents forever after..
In all honesty, that had be disgusting :D maybe its a cultural thingy or whatever but anyone who is up for being a ghar damad wud be such a no, no for me even though i wud want to live with my parents all my life but nahhh. Such a turn off!
You know i am trying my best to say yes to someone who lives in the same city as me, after that is done even if destiny takes me somewhere else i wont regret the fact that i never tried! =)
I agree. Goodluck.
Are you up for it?
nopes......
Lolz.
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In all honesty, that had be disgusting maybe its a cultural thingy or whatever but anyone who is up for being a ghar damad wud be such a no, no
you male chauvenist, anti-feminist, woman hating creature!!!!
that guy would do everything you want........why not?
its the answer to questions like
"why the girl has to move out of her parent's home",
"why only husband's parents need care",
"why husbands don't help out their in-laws and want to be treated like princes" and on and on and on..
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you male chauvenist, anti-feminist, woman hating creature!!!!
that guy would do everything you want........why not?
its the answer to questions like "why the girl has to move out of her parent's home", "why only husband's parents need care", "why husbands don't help out their in-laws and want to be treated like princes" and on and on and on..
You directed ^ to the wrong person here :D I am not one of "those" :p.
Re: Being away from parents…
haaaw haaaye 
you things exist to this day?? i thought your kind was extinct:bummer:
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I don’t think I would be very good at babying either! lol, do you think a guy would want to be a ghar damad? Even if I was crazy enough to insist this I am sure they would say no!
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do you seriously think that ‘ghar damaads’ don’t exist in real world?? 
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O no, I do know they do exist! I worded it wrong, I meant would the kind of person you want to marry/parents want you to marry want to be a ghar damaad. I mean it doesn't really portray the best of qualities does it. We have family friends who always said they wanted a ghar damaad as they only had one child, but turns out their daughter now lives miles away with her husband, even though he doesn't have family here he wanted to make it on his own.