Reha
March 21, 2010, 2:56pm
18
hi everyone. .
i’ve been on this for a week and i’ve got so sick enuf i can’t hold it back any longer. .
two years back, my dad, probably the only one who stood by me durin my hard times passed away. . and then i found a friend, the most honest i’ve ever seen, and u know we got close, were lik a bro and sis . . since the we used to talk a lot, we shared our joys and sorrows, she stood by me all along, i stood by her too. . she never expected me for help but i was there, i owe her my life. .
recently, she had some really hard time nd she just didn share it wit me. . she didn’t return my calls (she never does tat), and sent me a text sayin twas her last txt to me, nd she’s gone. . a whole week i lost myself, i was totally ignored. . last night, she sends me funny texts, which made me really crazy, i called her, she hung me up and switched the phone off. . she loves me a lot, cares for me better than my own mother but now she’s avoiding me. . i feel so bad i seriously ever ever don’t wanna go away from my sweetie. . how can i get her back? pls guys help me outta this. . .
but guys just understand this. . it wasn’t just mere friendship or stuff. . i got so close. . she helped me wit everythin she had. . now she’s facin a hard time, and tat made her a bit harsh i think. . u wouldn know how its lik. . oly when u get into this situation i’m in (which i hope should never happen to u people) u’ll know. . she’s all i’ve got here man. . i want her back. . i can risk anythin for her. . just tell me a way. . i’ve crossed a line and there’s no turnin back. . hey she really loved me ya . . more than everythin. . took care of me when i was dying wit a cruel disorder. . my mom did not stay by me cuz she was afraid tat it might catch her too. . My mom stayed away and she was with me. . now how can i leave such a sweetheart? isn’t it my job to make her understand?? huh?
Im confused here. You said you guys were like brother and sister and then she really loved you. Im wondering about the nature of your relationship with her, was it more romantic or platonic?
The reason I ask is…did she fall in love with you and then leave because she sees no future with you? You didnt make a move and now maybe someone else has made a move? She may want something you cannot give her and now that she realizes that its time for her to move in a different direction…away from you.