Being attractive vs being attracted

[Sara516]

Everybody has a preference for looks, whether they fit the “mold” of what’s attractive or not…

my question to you is, if you had a preference…did you end up marrying someone who fit that preference? or did you marry someone who didn’t fit that preference.

(im talking looks only)

[ehl-e-chamman]

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my spouse fit my preferences. Alhumdulillah

[Ashy2010]

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Not married yet, does not very a high demand for looks etc. Prefer education, family and personality more than looks. Looks ka achaar tau nahi dalna na if the person is not educated or does not belong to good family. As one of my aunts say, larkon ki shakal kia dekhni hai bus education aur family dekhni chahiye

After saying this, I agree that looks will be icing on the cake

[STA]

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@Ashy2010

Not married yet, does not very a high demand for looks etc. Prefer education, family and personality more than looks. Looks ka achaar tau nahi dalna na if the person is not educated or does not belong to good family. As one of my aunts say, larkon ki shakal kia dekhni hai bus education aur family dekhni chahiye

After saying this, I agree that looks will be icing on the cake

it is also true for girls. shakal ka achar thori dalana hota hai ager over all personality hi dabba hai to sari zindagi beth kar roo.

[cutefifa]

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I prefer well dressed people. Looks are not important for me for long run relationships like friends and life partner. bad dressing sense is a BIG turn off for me

[TheDreamer]

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im not married but most desi guys i find attractive are jerks....sorry

[NomiCA]

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@TheDreamer

m not married but most desi guys i find attractive are jerks....sorry

believe me...the ugly ones are no better...

[Jaanwar]

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Physical attractiveness is relative, different people are attracted to different attributes. As they say one man's nightmare is another man's dream, you can apply that here as well. As long as this difference prevails, there's hope for mingers.

[rizla86]

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@Jaanwar

As long as this difference prevails, there’s hope for mingers.

Damn you, you made me laugh out loud in the office!

[goddamniamsoawesome]

Re: Being attractive vs being attracted

@Jaanwar

Physical attractiveness is relative, different people are attracted to different attributes. As they say one man’s nightmare is another man’s dream, you can apply that here as well. As long as this difference prevails, there’s hope for mingers.

Hahaha love it!

[sazzie]

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@Sara516

Everybody has a preference for looks, whether they fit the "mold" of what's attractive or not.....

my question to you is, if you had a preference.....did you end up marrying someone who fit that preference? or did you marry someone who didn't fit that preference.

(im talking looks only)

The second one. But cos i loved the geezer, his looks turned into my preferences...if that makes sense.

[Sara516]

Re: Being attractive vs being attracted

@Jaanwar

Physical attractiveness is relative, different people are attracted to different attributes. As they say one man’s nightmare is another man’s dream, you can apply that here as well. As long as this difference prevails, there’s hope for mingers.

@sazzie

The second one. But cos i loved the geezer, his looks turned into my preferences…if that makes sense.

Yup totally does…