Life is difficult as a desi woman. Everyone’s talking about everyone else. You are expected to be a certain kind of a daughter, wife, mother etc… And many other issues.
How do YOU see an emotionally mature woman? What characteristics define an emotionally healthy woman? What kind of a woman do you want to be? What kind of women do you respect?
List the characteristics.
(Point of this thread is to infuse some positivity here in the midst of all the cheating treads - and other usual problems. Also, if we can see who/what our ideal self is, it becomes easier to snap out of our negativity.)
(Dear Men folk,
This thread isn’t quite for you :p. My apologies. You can have your own thread though, if you want.)
i always tell myself how difficult it is to be a girl. Everyone expects so much. People expect me to be decent and sughar and caring and blavalalblalvaal
so over the time ,i have built a thick skin.i have become so stubborn that nothing goes through my head anymore.I listen to myself and i feed on my ego.I find it healthy because i am happy.
I want to be a woman where anyone can be my friend...doesn't matter if it is male/female, I want to be a woman where a man knows that there are consequences if he crosses the line with me (and am happy that all my male friends knows this). I want to be someone that ppl can trust, and know that I will not be two-faced with them.
I want to be professional at work. I want to be a good daughter, I want to be a good wife and most of all I want to be a good mommy!!
The above listed are things I am and want to be, and also the things I look for in another woman. But these days some ppl are trying to make me look two-faced, and I dnt appreciate it at ALL!!!
I am stubborn as hell, I will not budge once I make up my mind abt something or someone and I dnt give quarter to anyone who has crossed me...I forgive BUT I don't forget!!