Behaviours

How often do you think about your behaviour?

Do you ever find yourself criticising your behaviour?

What's the one behaviour you wish you could change in yourself?

A life not reexamined is a life, not worth living. Socrates

You are, what you do. Aristotle

When we were talking to this beautiful Pakistani journalist about the bad behavior of the Dulhan, she said she too would react angrily towards anything unfavorable as that is how her father would react but one day she decided that she does not have to behave as her father did. We learn to behave from our parents, if they are screamers, we become screamers.

All the time

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Often

More than one :bummer:

Socrates said, question everything, answer nothing…lol. I reexamine my behavior every day. Being this good is not an accident.

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I wish I could stop wasting time :bummer:

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Every second of my life..

I cant call it criticising, but I keep grooming myself and behaviour all the time and learns to avoid mistake regarding my attitude and behaviour..

None..

I think I might have given wrong answer earlier as OP is asking precisely about behavior. I cant say how often but I do evaluate myself sometimes. I’m a pure introvert and admitting I do envy extroverts and wish I could be one. With strangers I dont start a convo and what they ask I do answer very precisely. I wish I could say in more description.

Often enough, I feel. But to actually take steps to improve myself is annother matter altogether. These days I feel disconnected with Allah and it?s because I?m missing out on a couple of prayers and I need to establish a dhikr routine. I also feel I need to me more mindful of the things I say.

ME_TOO :smiley:

@SID_NY

I can easily talk to strangers, but I am still an introvert. I?d rather be on my own or with a close friend than at a point party. I can?t yell out. I am very soft-spoken and I feel uneasy around people that speak loudly. I hate those team building ice-breaker activities at work where you have to share things about yourself in front of a group.

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aap ko kaya howa :hoonh:

I do find myself criticising my behaviour. More so after not realizing at the time..that i shouldnt have said or done so and so. For critical matters..i realize after year or months. But on a bright side..alhamdullilah..i try not to repeat samething again..

I’m not impulsive so I don’t have anything to regret in life I did on impulse. Though, I’m not very forgiving of others mistakes. As muslims, we must be forgiving so that’s a fault from Islamic POV. I try but mostly I find it very hard to forgive unless the other person proves from their bahviour that they are sorry. Saying the word ‘sorry’ is meaningless if they repeat the same mistakes. In my experience, if you keep forgiving such people, they make you a doormat & offcourse nobody wants to become a doormat. I also have high tolerance levels but once I’ve reached that level then there’s rarely a ‘forgive & forget’ moment.

But becoming more forgiving of others mistakes is what I would really like to change about myself.

Never thought about my behaviour or worried about it. Doing that I would feel that I am criticising who I am as a person, and I don’t think one should change who they are born to be. Unless of course it is affecting others.

Wouldn’t change a single thing about myself.
I’m always right

It’s a bit personal question about the behavior of any body not body can tell you the truth about himself.