ayeshaz
October 24, 2012, 3:38pm
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Re: Beginning a family vs completing school/starting a career
Thats true…no fun planning a baby alone specially when you have everyone back home who’ll be coming here anyway! You’re so right…
thats really good to hear!! and you are still SO YOUNG!! in that case, my suggestion would be to finish and then inshallah once your inalws are here, you will have enough support to help you with planning for children. it will be much more manageable, not only in the aspect of balancing a schedule once the baby is here but also in regards to helping you during your pregnancy, baby shower, shopping and all that fun stuff that comes with having a first baby. you will enjoy it much more! you are only 24! same difference as me and my hubby i am 25 and he is 31, inshallah i want to give it another year or two myself before i even start planning to also be able to establish my career a little bit so i have something to get back to once they are older. someone told me its much easier to pick up where you left of, as opposed to STARTING something new after having children, and that has stuck with me.
i agree with what someone said up there, its never really a right time to have children, or it always seems that way
