Re: Beards
Peace Sister PCG
I don’t think a statement like that is one that will shock you. In fact I don’t think many things shock you … Perhaps you are looking for reasons not to commit?
And anyway, what prompted him to say that?
Okay I’m not having a go at you … Let’s be reasonable here … at least he didn’t ask you that question !!!
Okay no one is perfect … and the reason why I married hareem01 was because of a number of things one of which was looks, but before looks was mental compatability and her innocence. Also, she had a very strong sense of tradition and that seemed amazing to me.
Write down on a piece of paper 5 things that you would like to see in a potential husband … if that bearded brother fits 3 of them then try to get him to understand that you are looking for a mature man and not a person with a humour of a teenager … It could work he may change for you!
Beards are an acquired taste … but we aren’t asking you to eat them … You’ll see, the fewer things about someones character that you have to complain about, then the less likely the beard will be an issue for you.