Re: Bear with me........
are you in Pakistan or outside?
if outside it is better that u move closer to a desi community make friends with other families that have their parents with them, i know itll be hard because they will be busy with their families and friend who also have families but you never know unless you try.
That way your mother will be around other desi even if they are not family.
but someone who is around by choice will treat you much better then family that feels forced
If your in Pakistan you can try to get a live in maid so that your mother is not alone when you are at work, also do the same there make friends with your neighbours who knows they may stop by every once in a while and keep your mother company for a bit.
If you move do the same but before you move find a job and living arrangements, do not stay with relative for more then 2 days and let them know itll only be that long... this way the relationship wont go bad