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yarrr she is her daughter and keep it in mind you are not her daughter, we can’t compare ourselves with our nands. i will never ask my mil how much and what she is giving to her daughter because it is their personal matter (maan beti ka) trust me it has nothing to do with your happy married life. grow up plsss..
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Im grown up n im not comparing 
exactly in tht case mils shud not expect us to do stuff that daughters do for em
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Its not about gold at all.alhamdulilah i ve alot of my own n wen my nand was getting married i evn offered my hubby to give one of my sets to her as i dont wear them at all.
my point is not mjhe b chahye.my point was only the farq she has had .n to b honest i m new to this .i ve always seen saas treating dil like a daughter in my khandan .be it my mom or sisters saas .so it came as a shock to me how she always gave me a cold shoulder .neways thanks all
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My in laws gave me 26 tolas, and gave my devrani more than that ( not sure exactly how much more). At first, it bothered me a lot, but you know what? My husband loves me a lot, takes care of me, and is a wonderful husband. My devar wants a divorce from his wife. I would rather have a loving husband who wants to be with me any day over any amount of gold.
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I’m not sure how the tola system works, but I got two heavy sets and a bunch of other smaller ones. I have never been into gold all that much, but I did have my heart set on a big ring for the wedding (since I didn’t get an engagement ring). I got a really pretty diamond ring for the weddng, but not the kind I had in mind. I eventually let my husband know this, and he (sweetheart that he is) immediately offered to buy me another one. Which he did as a gift for our first anniversary ^^ It took us months to find one I loved, and we had a pretty good time shopping together