I remember once at work Colleagues and I had a similar discussion and the end result was as acknowledged by them ( all gora’s and gori’s ) : the way we dress says alot about how we want to be treated and our intentions .
I too am not conservative in my dressing, I wear suits and shirts but just that I try to avoid figure hugging dresses and low neck tops and sleaveless tops etc ..
My colleague ( a gori ) clearly accepts she likes the “effect” she has on clients , and hence she likes to dress up accordingly , wears nice sexy tops and skirts that do show the sensual side of a woman yet not looking vulgar … and so she gets the attention she wants and likes.
infact she was telling me once if i need similar attention I should learn to dress differently , I politely turned down her offer .. 