Yeah , but I feel Jaanwar , if a person generally says hey you look good … its understandable perhaps by a close friend …
but imagine you standing with your wife and someone compliments her you look beautiful please visit us often ! how would you feel ?
hence my reaction , I dont want people to cross that personal line with me… they can say you look great today and i will say thank you . but beyond that , a stranger, be it a dukanwala , client, boss doesnt have any rights to make comments and if they do I have the right to politely tell them I do not see this as a compliment.
I feel women should learn to put their foot down when it comes to how much attention to invite from whome. I am doing business with my business skills not my appearance , hence the person should have commended my business skills not my appearance ..
you know what i mean… ? that client told me once ,he is always very careful with his comments with asian working women since that incident with me , so as he doesnt offend them 