My fiance is partially bald and I am worried that people will call him a “Takla” because my family is full of spiteful idiots like that.
On the Baraat, he can cover it with his pagri but what can he do to cover his head on the Valima? As he will be wearing a black suit.
Please help (even if you regard it as a non-issue)
Re: Bald Groom
well i don't think you can if he's wearing a suit. and you don't want to go down the hair piece route.
that's who he is, you should both be proud of it! family can be idiots just ignore them and concentrate on your day.
i'A you'll both look amazing.
Re: Bald Groom
aww thanks stoppit. Waisaye to he is very good looking but I just dont want him to be insecure about it.
Yea, people will always be idiots about it. Maybe he can wear a shalwar kameez with a nice topi on the Valima? Or is that a rarity?
Re: Bald Groom
Well, I've never seen it. It's always a suit.
Is he actually insecure or are you feeling nervous for him coz you know what your family is like? If so, then don't. Feel proud of the way he looks and that will make him happy too.
Hopefully, you'll both be too busy to notice what anyone is saying. I'd also get my siblings to know they have to stare down anyone who utters mean comments :p
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Its a bit of both stoppit.
He feels insecure and because of that I feel nervous. I love him to bits but just want us to be relaxed on the Valima.
Iam gonna ask him to shave all his hair off his head so at least he can turn around and said "that's my style"
Re: Bald Groom
its ur job to make him feel secure
maybe you can give him a pep talk and tell him are ppl in your family who like to make fun of ppl but they all too it in good humor(even if they dont do it in good humor) tell him you think his baldness is sexy but they will take it as an opportunity to take jabs at him and to not pay any attention to it since they dont mean anything by it ...and then say why dont you shave it all off and tell me anyone who takes a poke at you thats my style...like vin diesel
baldness is sexy!....if he feels unsecure...then add a pair of dark no power glasses.....
and damn thats going to add on to everything...:D
dont worry hun, being bald is not that big of an issue..what matters more is what the person is from the inside :D
and plus..agar koi perfect banda bhi lay aoo ge tou log usay bhi bhi batien marnay kay liye koi na koi reason dhond lain gain...
people always tend to come up with somethign to say....and plus they are not perfect either...so what if he is bald..these people are not perfect...they are rude.....
Re: Bald Groom
don't worry a lot of young men are losing hair now days, its not a huge issue anymore. He could always style his hair in a way that it would cover up the bald spot.
baldness is sexy!....if he feels unsecure...then add a pair of dark no power glasses.....
and damn thats going to add on to everything...:D
hell yea!! I like that idea ;) I never thought baldness was sexy but hey ho...each to their own.
dont worry hun, being bald is not that big of an issue..what matters more is what the person is from the inside :D
and plus..agar koi perfect banda bhi lay aoo ge tou log usay bhi bhi batien marnay kay liye koi na koi reason dhond lain gain...
people always tend to come up with somethign to say....and plus they are not perfect either...so what if he is bald..these people are not perfect...they are rude.....
True Mani, you are so right! But my extended family like khalas and tayas are all like that. They don't get to know the guy but just jump to stupid conclusions based on physical appearance. I think I make him feel more insecure because I tell him this. I remember when he came to my house to ask for the rishta. He wore a nice cap and I thought "Aww bless"
Re: Bald Groom
awwww.....they look so happy in love... and the guy doesnt look too bad either :)
Re: Bald Groom
He can shave his head for the second day.
Don’t worry, baldness is a sign of intellignece! 
Besides, Aamir Khan was also quite bald in Ghajini and looked pretty cute! 
Re: Bald Groom
no worry its ok. happens to most men and it suit them.
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if he is not that much bald ..he can use topic..topic is a products dust/sprinkle it on your headd and it will hide the baldiness....
i agree with all post above..nothing wrong to b bald..
but i can understand your feelings stardust...one of my couisn husband is bald..very good looking man ..he is from uk....wasnt bald before but then he lost hairs and he shaved his head..since in west balds r very common so he was fine with his new style never feel shy or insecure or complexed...
so at his mehendi fucntion..mostly aunties were gossiping..("dulha ganja hai....itni si umer main bal char gayee,pata nahi baal kyon gir gayee...etc..)they just sidelined things that he is so tall good looking handsome etc....
bride groom both listen such coments gracefully and never showed that they are nervous or insecure.....they showed they are very hapy what ever they have...never took them seriously..avoid most of the time...and when aunties saw thier confidence..many aunties who were making fun of his baldiness majboor hogaye kehne pe DULHA AISE HI ACHA LAG RAHA HAI..JAB BAAL THEY TAB ITNA ACHA NAHI LAGTA THA ABB ZIADA ACHA LAG RAHA HAI...
so its upto u how u behave and tackle this thing...:)
well u r more thiking about valima..u forgot mehendi..?
or u r not having mehendi...how he will hide his head at mehendi function...
Re: Bald Groom
shaved heads suit some guys- my bro was losing his hair really young and he shaved it all off and it looks super stylish.
so long as YOU don't think he looks bad, why bother with other's opinions??
Re: Bald Groom
Interesting.
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come on. if he's bald, he should be okay with it showing. dont hide and make him feel insecure and stupid. women and their issues...
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^ srsly to the first part...
