Re: bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? halo
Allah swt, aisa nice aur sensitive husband seb ko ataa karey. amen.
Mrs. Shikra, you are very lucky, mash Allah and so is mr. Shikra.
kush rahein dono, mash Allah. :>
best,
Dushwari
I will let you ladies have your discussion/ventilation after saying a few words.
I have made it very clear in direct words to my family that we will have babies when we think is the best time. I do not let pressure overcome me. They understand me loud and clear and that is the reason they do not ask me that question anymore. It's Mrs. who gets under pressure and lets them ask this question again and again. I have suggested her if anyone asks again, refer them to me and I would love to talk to them.
Mom also understands, or pretends that she does, and I respect her feelings/wish to become a grandma. It's mostly when she talks to her friends and I don't know what they ask/tell her. It's after those conversations when she starts it all over again with Mrs.
Oh well.