Baggage

[Pataka]

Re: Baggage

@Murgi

I don’t think it’s if a woman or a man’s better. I think it’s a personality issue. Baggage affects no matter who you are, what age, what stage of life or whatever. Baggage needs to be dealt with and not be…pushed away. And who better to help you deal with it than your spouse?

very true.

also, the person with the baggage should help themselves first. They need to get over what happened. the past is the past for a reason and you shouldn’t base your future expectations or judgments based on what happened to you in your past. Yes, learn from your mistakes but say someone has trust issues, don’t begin to question every little thing that your spouse does and make something out of nothing.