If you eat too quickly you risk looking sloppy and messy, food falling and on ur mouth and face n messing up ur clothes.
if you put too much on your plate, ure hungry and greedy,
if you put very little you look like a picky eater,
if you go back for seconds (and thirds or fourths) putting one or two spoonfuls of food, it just looks really retarded.
If you clean your plate you look greedy and hungry.
If you leave some over, you’re wasting food.
And the latest complaint now is, you have to be the first one to clear your plate and if you’re still eating when everyone is almost done, you’re phir bhi kameeni andhungry and a greedy pig
i cant be myself, whatever I do i get yelled at, if i eat too fast i look sloppy and messy, if i eat too much and finish it all, i look greedy, i hate having to go for seconds, and now i'm getting yelled at coz i eat too slow and wanted to finish my plate coz i hate wasting food at all, and then i get yelled at and feel embarrassed and hate myself :(
Sara, I eat till im seventy five percent full. I used to get yelled at for leaving food on my plate but you will learn that after you get married, well guys eat a lot more than girls so he can finish up your plate too. It works out.
And there are times, when i outeat Matt. They are rare but ill give you an example, yesterday, i was craving chicken. Hadn't had in in like weeks. . .and you know what. . . i was faster than him, ate more than him and was done before he was even halfway finished.
Don't let other people decide how you eat or what you eat or why you eat. You can't live your life for them.
^ I guess. I try to be neat and eat slowly and not look like a pig, but no matter what I do i get yelled at for looking/acting like a pig, not doing anything properly, talking too much about something, making too many jokes etc, for being a total failure :hinna:
ok lemme take a min to digest all that in.....whoa.
ok gurl all i can tell u right now is to try and communicate with your mom and be friends with her instead of assume a submissive role. have u communicated all of the above with your mom? talk to her.
