I don’t know if any of you have family or friends that are backbitters who dont admit that they backbite! I’ve seen this happen so many times and i do it myself sometimes, but i want to know how i can stop it and how i can make other stop it!
this is mostly common between aunties that are old…they start backbitting as soon as they leave someones house!
and my friends do it aswell. they dont admit it to the people that they are backbitting about but i know they are because i’ve done that myself.(but im trying to stop that!) but i want to stop them and i have but they’d listen one day andthe next day they would go and do it again!
this happens so often nd isn’t it ironic that we’re muslims?
ok leme put it simple for you .. by you opening this thread ..about backbiting .. to discuss who back bites and what goes on in families .. then you no better than them cos your supposed to be putting a cover over their faults .. so you ppl are no better ..
but i want to know how i can stop it and how i can make other stop it!
^^ you say this , then open a thread .. come on get real ..
I d appriciate if this thread is closed so we cant backbite about our families and friends ..
i believe har insaan ek janwar hota hai jo keh waqt anay par hi samnany aata hai
jab janwar hoga to woh katay ga bhi that why we often do back biting but dont have intentions
its bad i too do that sometimes:bummer:
FbI: if you read carefully you'd know that i wasn't specificlly naming anyone and by friends and family i meant in GENERAL! nd if i was backbittin i wouldn't say " i do that aswell sometime" im talking in general and i jsut want to know that what is it with backbiting??(IN GENERALLL)
if ur friends backbite you and then become nice to you…the next time they talk nicely with u just tell dem straight up u dnt wna talk to two faced biatches :o
if family members do that! my family members NEVER do that…you see, they’d rather say it to your face and then when they get an answer back…“larki kitni batameez hai, baron ko jawaab daythi hai” well jawaab nahi doon gi na agar bolo gay nai duhhhh
my family members NEVER do that…you see, they’d rather say it to your face and then when they get an answer back…“larki kitni batameez hai, baron ko jawaab daythi hai” well jawaab nahi doon gi na agar bolo gay nai 
duhhhh