Re: back with cousin problems
If you cant tell her up straight, then play her at her game. Tell her you will be wearing bright pink or green...or some random colour on the wedding day, send her sample pictures, better yet go shopping with her and point out a random wedding dress. If she is a serial copy cat, you'll find out on the big day, if not, she's probably turned off by your taste for good. Either way... you'll have the last laugh.