As bulleh Shah says "the matter is solved when the lower self is eliminated But i guess im barking at the wrong tree!
yeah yeah, i get it. I'm not pretending to be some girl who puts everyone before herself and is totally self-less. i know i'm being selfish right now.
its not the clothes, really, its the principle of that matter. i dont mind her getting the same color....its possible that we couldve ended up having the exact same color combo on the wedding and it wouldnt have bothered me because i know she would've had no way of knowing.
its just that she asked me and said that she specifically wants to know so that she DOESNT get the same colors, and now is getting the same colors! thats deceitful.