i heart you, redvelvet, if mahismart is the encyclopedia of gupshup, then you’re definitely Dear Abby 
redvelvet said that cause my history with this cousin is far deeper than just this incident. its been years of comparisons and lies…some family issues have made things quite tense between us at times, and because everyone else already compares us so much, i dont see the point in making it worse by looking like twins?
lol no iyla, i doubt im that cousin…our weddings are apart by a few months, not a few weeks.
i see your points, i guess i mightttt be overreacting, but I feel like copying is ok when you sort of acknowledge you’ll be doing that rather than sneak info out and THEN use that info to copy stuff for your wedding. its especially frustrating when you’ve worked hard to make your wedding your own.
but i think you guys are right, my wedding is first and even if she does copy, people will notice and say things. but at the same time, she’s not your everyday, run of the mill cousin who looks up to you for ideas. Its beyond normal…and it might sound outrageous to you, but really, my cousin is the type of person redvelvet has described.