what to say when your kid asks you “ham Allah miyan ke kia lagtay hain?”
U have to reply to and convince a 5 yr old here.. islieye zara soch samajh ke answer dena…
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kids dont understand logic…u have to talk to them in their lingo.
if he is good in making lego stuff…then ask him a question (after she/he makes something) that what u call urself now?
ps. i have neice and nephews myself. and i was once a kid myself (well still bug my family n teachers n ask them highly sophisticated question, which are of course they never able to answer to the level of satisfaction)
hmm kids are mostly like the 'Question Machines' and you have to pay attention on whatever they are trying to know, you have to satisfy them by giving them an approprate answer, I observe that elders/parents give lame answers to avoid the more questions asked by their kids, this shouldn't be happend like you give the proper answer like if you are satisfied by whatever you are saying, the kid would also seem satisfied by your answer.
Anyway coming to the point. If they ask "ham Allah miyan ke kia lagtay hain?" I think answer should be like "Allah nay humain banaya hai issliye wo humara maalik hai aur hum uss ke slaves hain" :@:
elegance, that’s what I try to do.. I always try to satisfy him.. like there was a spider web outside in the plants.. and he asked me “yeh spider hamaray ghar main kion reh raha hai?” and I tried to give him a logical answer, that everyone needs a place to stay, birds live in nests and spiders make webs… since they cant build houses so they need our wall’s help to make a web…
I guess that stisfied him..
But this time I was lajawab
And I did try to say something like Allah ne hamain banaya hai aur ham us ke banday hain … but I guess he didnt understand what I was trying to say
Mashallah aap bohat zaheen hain , hamain pata hay baar baar jatanay key zaroorat nahi , mah a ramzaan ka maheena ha iss say ziada kuch nahi kah sakta , roza kharab ho jai ga.
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i would've said , bacchhay .....:) if this qs is asked for first time ,
unless i come up with a good & simple convincing or understandable answer later on .
Allah miyan ne humein paida kiya hai ke hum achay bachay ban ke dekhain:LB:
aur hum ALlah miyan ke ibadat kartay hain.hum insan hai aur Allah miyan ke banday hain