Re: Bachelorette???
Yup you got it right the bachelorette party is usually an out of town trip where the bridal shower is done locally - but I’ve seen a few bachelorette parties which are done in the same city as the bride - its just like a day/night out where your friends plan something fun. Usually your friends pay for everything - now when it comes to plane tickets that all depends on the friends - I have been on a few where the bride paid for her own ticket since she felt bad so she wouldnt let us but we paid for everything else including hotel and food spa stuff etc.
Theres so many other things which you can do other then going out and drinking- spa stuff, sightseeing in diff city, broadway shows eating a nice restaurants and the list goes on!!!