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It's yet another useless tradition in a long list of "western cultural" events that we like to ape like we were born and raised in Orange County. Most probably it ends up being just a guys hang out while under the false impression of being hip and oh so cool.
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as long as no strippers or dance girls are invited , its ok. Its just an excuse to party.
Just having a last boyz night out, coz priorities change after marriage. Eat , drink and be merry.
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I went to one in Pakistan, was a bit homo, they had kusray dancing and everything and were rubbing them up. They all acted as if it was perfectly normal. Weirdos.
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I am very glad to see that im not that naive, and did not live in my own bubble.
Im engaged and my fiance is a very shareef boy, we're best friends. His friend recently had a bachelor party and he asked me if im comfortable going. i said sure go. he said some of his friends friends are planning to get prostitutes for funs sake. they'll only dance and leave. no touching nothing more. i knowing some experience from stories so i told him that if they will be there so things will get dirty. He does not drink, but i told him if the guys really tease you then he can have a sip or two.
so after the party he told me things went crazy, all guys were dancing quite close and going in corners to touch them and all. he suspected that some guys even slept with them.
a day later after meeting his friends again he found out that they all had b-j with the prostitute, and they told him that he was a papu bacha there.
I was quite shocked and grossed by it. im sure he wanted to be a part of that too.. but what am i suppose to do? half the men there are engaged as well.
Note: all those guys there were very educated, working in good companies. not at all the street type boys who arent educated. one of them is a gold medalist in CA. im just so upset.
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It has nothing to do with education.
Nor is debauchery some imported western concept. Mujras, on site or client site have been around for centuries.
As far as parties go, they vary from guys eating samosas and Pakola all the way to strippers. I saw one of these firsthand in Pakistan back in 1988. It's no recent phenomenon.
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As far as parties go, they vary from guys eating samosas and Pakola all the way to strippers. I saw one of these firsthand in Pakistan back in 1988. It's no recent phenomenon.
samosas or strippers?
What makes you think I would have gone to a "party" with guys eating samosas and watching cricket clips.
I mean I would go, have a quick samosa and bail...
Come to think of it that applies to stripped too.
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hawwwhai
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Nor is debauchery some imported western concept. Mujras, on site or client site have been around for centuries.
As far as parties go, they vary from guys eating samosas and Pakola all the way to strippers. I saw one of these firsthand in Pakistan back in 1988. It's no recent phenomenon.
Hopefully, it wasn't one of those "dancing girls" which look more like they are having seizures on the middle of the floor.
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He does not drink, but i told him if the guys really tease you then he can have a sip or two.
Noooooo! It doesn't matter if he takes a sip or drinks the entire bottle!
He should have enough self-control to not give in to peer pressure.
And try to tell him that he needs new friends, but try not to do this in a way that seems controlling to him. He needs friends without oral STDS.
Doppelgänger unfortunately that is what it was, and was pretty revolting nothing like some good stateside strippers. Now, I have been told that they have graduated from desi floor seizures to Russian or central Asian strippers but I have not been to pack in ages and have not had a chance to verify.
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Doppelgänger unfortunately that is what it was, and was pretty revolting nothing like some good stateside strippers. Now, I have been told that they have graduated from desi floor seizures to Russian or central Asian strippers but I have not been to pack in ages and have not had a chance to verify.
you talking about major cities or anywhere in Pakistan in general?
Dunno about rest of Pakistan, this was in Karachi at a pretty lavish party, booze everywhere, joints, you name it. My first exposure to that in Pakistan
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I thought of “Resham ka hai lehnga mera, baali si umeriya.”
Kisi Pakistani dramay main is song pe mujra kar rahe thay.
I also thought of Imran Khan. :halo:
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I am very glad to see that im not that naive, and did not live in my own bubble. Im engaged and my fiance is a very shareef boy, we're best friends. His friend recently had a bachelor party and he asked me if im comfortable going. i said sure go. he said some of his friends friends are planning to get prostitutes for funs sake. they'll only dance and leave. no touching nothing more. i knowing some experience from stories so i told him that if they will be there so things will get dirty. He does not drink, but i told him if the guys really tease you then he can have a sip or two.
so after the party he told me things went crazy, all guys were dancing quite close and going in corners to touch them and all. he suspected that some guys even slept with them.
a day later after meeting his friends again he found out that they all had b-j with the prostitute, and they told him that he was a papu bacha there.
I was quite shocked and grossed by it. im sure he wanted to be a part of that too.. but what am i suppose to do? half the men there are engaged as well.
Note: all those guys there were very educated, working in good companies. not at all the street type boys who arent educated. one of them is a gold medalist in CA. im just so upset.
ahh muslim men. gota love em
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at least men from other religions man up about what they do/like/enjoy.
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I am very glad to see that im not that naive, and did not live in my own bubble. Im engaged and my fiance is a very shareef boy, we're best friends. His friend recently had a bachelor party and he asked me if im comfortable going. i said sure go. he said some of his friends friends are planning to get prostitutes for funs sake. they'll only dance and leave. no touching nothing more. i knowing some experience from stories so i told him that if they will be there so things will get dirty. He does not drink, but i told him if the guys really tease you then he can have a sip or two.
so after the party he told me things went crazy, all guys were dancing quite close and going in corners to touch them and all. he suspected that some guys even slept with them.
a day later after meeting his friends again he found out that they all had b-j with the prostitute, and they told him that he was a papu bacha there.
I was quite shocked and grossed by it. im sure he wanted to be a part of that too.. but what am i suppose to do? half the men there are engaged as well.
Note: all those guys there were very educated, working in good companies. not at all the street type boys who arent educated. one of them is a gold medalist in CA. im just so upset.
Ewwwww..... god that is disgusting !!!!
Just shows character. I mean drinking and dirty jokes and all is fine but this !!!
But yea, its nothing to be surprised about. I'm sure people like these used the bachelor party as an excuse to do what they always wanted to do. And these will be the very same men who will not allow their wives to do this or that because they are conservative and religious.
I have a large group of friends, everyone drinks we have had many a drunk nights at clubs or our respective houses, but one of these boys ever showed dis respect to us girls or any other girl. Everyone behaves at all time. Drunk or not drunk. We have all reached home safely every time.
That's one flaw I can't over look. To indulge in prostitutes or being a sleazy with women. Ugh... as soon as we know that the guy is a lecherous, we stay miles away. There is not need to socialize with such people.
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Note: all those guys there were very educated, working in good companies. not at all the street type boys who arent educated. one of them is a gold medalist in CA. im just so upset.
It has nothing to do with education.
What redvelvet said. Being highly educated does not make you an angel.
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I recently heard about bachelor parties in pakistan. Does anyone of you have any idea about what goes on around there?
Do committed or married guy attend it and indulge in wrongful acts or what?
yes bachelor parties are picking up in Pakistan mainly in upper middle class and upper class.
it is attended by groom to be male friends and they can either be bachelors or committed/married.
whether one indulges in wrongful acts or not depends on the character and own values.
if a groom to be and his close friends arranging this party for him are not into dirty acts in their normal lives they do not keep any such thing for a bachelor party as well and vice versa.
generally good nice bachelor parties in Pakistan are built around some specific theme, then all the venue decor is done according to that theme. themed cake is cut by the groom to be, they have special menu, music,dance, and have fun in nice clean manner.
and oh yes the groom to be gets presents separately on this party as well:)
a separate party is thrown for bride to be as well in Pakistan.