bachelor party

[Mahru]

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^^ I like your bright idea but the question is how much will funguy like the idea???;)

[funguy]

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I can do both but be gentle with me, ladies. GRRRRRRRRRRR

[Sara516]

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I'm sure dope will be very gentle with you

[Mahru]

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^^^ lol...........

[dope]

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@Sara516

I’m sure dope will be very gentle with you

:rotato: I was sexually assaulted by a stripper named Deuce Fungilo, male gigolo.

[Mahru]

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^^Is that the same funguyilo…i mean fungilo that i am thinking of…

[Sara516]

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@dope

:rotato: I was sexually assaulted by a stripper named Deuce Fungilo, male gigolo.

Well u dun look like ur complaining

[Roman]

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It's just a guys' ritual. There is usually nothing serious about it. Generally it's just a strip show and lap dances. More elaborate ones may include more than that for guy's buddies but usually the guy himself does not indulge in any sort of intercourse. At extreme it might be some other form of sex for him (not the intercourse). Very rarely there would be anything more than that. Really depends on the guy. But whether or not he likes it, he'd sure to get a lap dance.

I personally find strip clubs appalling. Paying a woman to get naked in front of you and dance is not really fun to me.

[LegallyBrown]

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Roman will you come to my bachelor party

[Roman]

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Legally, I’ll come to your bachelor party dancing all the way through 700 seas.

[LegallyBrown]

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If i suggest a song will you dance to it

[rimsh_1]

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@shweetdreamz

I always thought they were pretty sick and definitely a wrong way to start life-long committment. I am, however, meeting more and more desis (guys as well as gals) that think its ok. Im not really interested in what gora guys think of it. but more so in what desi men and women think of it. so coupla questions:
when a guy’s friends throw a bachelor party for him, does that include strippers and sexual contact with them , does it include sex?
what about bachelorrette parties…havent heard of any desi women throw one…
girls-if u found out one night before you’re getting married that your man is having a bachelor party…what would u do?..keep him or dump him b4 marriage?..

I haven’t heard of any desi bachelor party that involves stripers here in Canada, but my cousin’s friend went to a couple bachelor parties in Isb, and Lahore that had stripers, belly dancers and the whole deal. I personally think it’s pretty sick and if my guy ever had a bachelor party with stripers, or belly dancers I’ll dump him b4 marriage.

[shweetdreamz]

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@Fayz

It really depends on the guy and the company he hangs out with. If you are marrying a playboy then don’t think he is only shirarti with you. That would be denial

If I were to give an advice to women, I’d say let him do it…there isn’t much of a long lasting charm in these things and it’s better if the guy decides for quit himself rather than being forced. same goes for smoking, drinking, gambling etc.

so i suppose u guys think its ok if a woman also has a bachellorette (sp?) party too?..with male strippers lap dancing n da whole she-bang

[Fayz]

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^ If I am marrying a playgirl then there should be no inhibitions, you go your way..I go my way..we meet after it's all over.
The point is.. you can't expect people to change just cuz you love them or you married them. The realization to quit especially for a third party always comes from within. No religion, morals or wife can force it. It's useless

[dope]

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@shweetdreamz

so i suppose u guys think its ok if a woman also has a bachellorette (sp?) party too?..with male strippers lap dancing n da whole she-bang

No woman is required to destroy the world by amusing herself.

[shweetdreamz]

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@dope

No woman is required to destroy the world by amusing herself.

u dubble standard desi!

[Zabardast]

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Hmmmmmm...I see...

[Muzna]

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Fayz is right.

If a guy/gal is like that to begin with, you should know it and make your decision to be with him/her armed with that knowledge.

People have this skewed perception that you can be a playboy/girl and when the urge to marry comes along you suddenly are gonna give up those urges. It doesn't happen. Believe me.

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Fact is the desis that you criticise dont have these parties without the knowledge of their significant other...so if both parties are happy with whatever is going on then there is no problem in regards to how it effects the marriage...

The only time it really becomes a problem is if you breach what is deemed acceptable by your partner...so your fiance might not have a problem with a stripper being present but may have a problem with other things...as her husband to be...if he doesnt respect her wishes then their is a problem...

Otherwise its all good...we all have our own limits...some think its ok to have strippers and alcohol...some dont...its dependent on the two people...if they are happy with thing then its all good...and their marriage wont be affected at all...