baby vs life goals

[farrah]

Re: baby vs life goals

@TLK

someone is hitting 35 eh ..

no … nobody is hitting 35 .. yet … but according to our thought pattern, i wouldnt be younger than 32 when i ultimately have one.

@goddamniamsoawesome

Well if both partners are thinking along the same lines then you’re not hurting anyone. Most people have told me they just felt ready to take on a responsibility and the birth of a child reinforced their bonds and provided a challenging but very fulfilling addition to their lives. Very few people actually have regrets, everyone gets to have a few doubts here and there though I’m sure.

yes. both partners are thinking along the same lines:

“awwwww … i so want a baby”

“we must wait till the desired stability is achieved”