Your other half sounds a bit like mine but we’ve even bought a couple of things (inc some super cute baby trainers) that we saw and just couldn’t resist lol and we’re still only engaged
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I don’t think it matters either way** if ppl want to wait or choose to have a baby a little earlier (as long as they aren’t already struggling to pay the bills or something).. My parents had me quite late (my dad is 60+ now but there is about a ten-year gap between him and my mum so by desi standards she was a ‘late’ mother for me as well in those days) but he says he has no regrets that he chose to marry after he was totally stable rather than before like a lot of other men back then as well as his own brothers.. Obviously everyone has different priorities tho.. Each to their own imo..
