Re: Baby Talk?
Ppl say things, some say it like sadzz says - 3 weeks after the wedding. "OMG, you are not pregnant yet?" Weirdo's.
I've had random aunties whom I do not even know come up and ask me directly if I'm avoiding having kids or if I am having problems, and what sort of precautions am I taking of any and what "treatment" I have taken to rectify the problem of trying. I was gobsmacked. So shocked I couldn't reply!
Best thing is to ignore and certainly do NOT give them any facts, i.e. if you are or are not using precautions, if you are planning to have them in a couple or years or whatever.
If you can ignore them without a response, then ignore, otherwise do as the others have said, say when Allah wills then it will happen. There is nothing more true than that!