she is a small desi-aunty to be precise…she will make mean comments…laugh it off when u ask her to do anything… would not listen to what you say…and keep fiddling around with wrong stuff…i.e Pressing Iron, Knives for cutting fruits etc, spilling shampoo n other stuff in the bathroom…making a mess on the floor…
how is one supposed to baby sit such a ‘creature’??
she is a small desi-aunty to be precise...she will make mean comments...laugh it off when u ask her to do anything...... would not listen to what you say......and keep fiddling around with wrong stuff...i.e Pressing Iron, Knives for cutting fruits etc, spilling shampoo n other stuff in the bathroom.....making a mess on the floor.......
how is one supposed to baby sit such a 'creature'??
That would be quite a test but understand that all the kids are full of energy. Its only a myth that you put some cartoon on and kid would stay glued to the TV for next 3 hours.
In your case, I would not try to discipline the kid but rather distract her to more harmless activities like painting or wii
Keep all those dangerous things at a level where she cannot reach.
Sit her down. Look at her and without smiling, tell her that if she doesn't listen to you, you will punish her.
Give her a warning 3 times. The 4th time, punish her.
Punishments: deny her any favorite thing of hers, have her sit in her room alone, threaten her that you will tell her teacher of her bad behavior in school.
why not engage her in fun activity. Seems like she will only act out if she's bored and 5 year old need constant engagement. Something creative and fun.
Kids like that need to be engaged.
They require a bit more attention from the supervising adult than other children.
It would be a good idea to plan your time with this child if you are babysitting her.
Go in with a strategy and lots of activities.
First thing first: Never babysit if your house is not baby/kids safe.
Secondly, kids need attention. No matter if its desi kid or non-desi you have to get her involved into activities. You can not tell her to entertain herself that too when she is at new place (your place?)
Oh man.. i have a nephew.. he is like 3 .. but oh my GOD… He is a tornado … he will cry..then laugh. .then throw. then cry..then laugh. .then run.. then fell.. then get up.. then run.. then break… then sleep. .well never mind .. he never sleep.
what a creature… i wish he located in Pak.. then i will see
what does she likes to do? You need find something that is age appropriate and she likes to do. Rest, her behavior is her parents fault, the kid need boundaries and appears they were never set for her. so you might want to set boundaries for her when you are baby sitting.
If they get it by doing wrong stuff, they'll continue to do it and would not bother about the consequences as the objective of the exercise is met...
If you ignore her wrong doings and pay attention to good things she does, she will behave well and try to do all the good things this wins her the only thing she want and that is attention...
PS: it is not an easy job to control any kid unless you are a kid... mingle with them..otherwise they are always ready to test the boundaries...