they’re so cute. i can’t wait to have some of my own one day. 
:-)
I certainly can wait. Did you see Catherine Zeta-Jones at the Oscars?? As amazingly stunning as she is, she was just HUGE at the Oscars. All I could see were two Princess Lea buns on the sides of her head. That sight alone was enough birth control to last me a few years. :)
I can wait too Mehnaz! The discomfort I have seen expectant mothers go through before and after the delivery is enough to calm down any urges. :shudders: Adoption is another option.
gogo gaga (^_^)
available for adoption
:-)
I’ll definately wait as long as i can and adoption is a great idea :k:
Adoption?
U are just saying that.
Jab wak't aaye ga tau u would want ur very own offspring.
ps: adoption is a great thing to do when in need.
I wont mind goin thru it ... :-)
wesay i dont kno if its relevant here or not.. but talkin about babies just made me think, whats the right age to hav babies... is it good to hav it early as possible?!?! (18-22) mid twenties?! (23-27) late twenties?!(28-29) n so on ?
just for the sake of healthy discussion... :-)
^^
how bout throughout :D
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I wont mind goin thru it ... :-)
wesay i dont kno if its relevant here or not.. but talkin about babies just made me think, whats the right age to hav babies... is it good to hav it early as possible?!?! (18-22) mid twenties?! (23-27) late twenties?!(28-29) n so on ?
just for the sake of healthy discussion... :-)
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Apparently, there is a correlation between having babies in your late thirties or later, and a greater risk of breast cancer.
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Adoption?
U are just saying that.
Jab wak't aaye ga tau u would want ur very own offspring.
ps: adoption is a great thing to do when in need.
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Ditto :)
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Apparently, there is a correlation between having babies in your late thirties or later, and a greater risk of breast cancer.
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Not to mention higher pregnancy complications.
I have been told that it is healthy to have a baby in the early thirties and not before. I think that is pure crap though.
Early-mid twenties is supposedly the healthiest time to start having babies. I wouldn't wait till I was 30 though cause then the risk of problems during the pregnancy increase.
However, just thinking of stretch marks give me shudders!
One should have her first baby before 30 yrs of age.So you can say twenties is the best time when one should conceive because late pregnancy,say after 30 yrs of age is associated with greater chances of developing breast cancer and in some cases there is increased risk of infertility as well.
I love babies . But the painful procedures a mother has to go through to give birth to a baby makes me too much frightened of it all.
fathers aren't meant to carry babies cause' they aren't strong enough and perhaps would hurt him/her..
khair..babies are cute as long as they keep their diapers clean
i came in this threat half expecting moona to ask the question "Where do they come from ?"
hehe :)
Being a parent is probaby one of the best experiences you can have. Sure you go through all the morning sickness, stretch marks and other problems with pregnancy not to mention the pain of giving birth but its all worth it in the end. I know its a cliche but you really do forget all about the pain once you hold your baby in your arms.
Don't knock it until you've tried it.
Shahreen is right. It is all worth it in the end.
And let's make one thing clear.....not everything happens to every woman. Ibrahim asked me the morning after Noor was born if I was willing to go again and I told him yes, definitely! Allah ka shukar hai.
I know of a girl that delivered a healthy 8.5 lb baby last month with ZERO, yes ZERO pain. No pain management medication was administered and she dilated to six cm before she even knew she was laboring.
Some women never have morning sickness. (No such luck here)
Some women never get stretch-marks. (Thank God!!! Someone gave me the tip of slobbering baby oil from neck to knees everytime I showered and it worked.)
Some women never feel labor pains. (Epidural zindabad!)
Some women never get spots or dark patches on their faces. (Lucky me.) In fact, pregnancy actually suits some women and gives them a healthy glow so that they look more beautiful while they are carrying their child.
Yes...do have your kids early in life. Do not wait until your thirties. There are way too many risks at that point...both to baby and mom. How would you feel if you ended up burdening your child with a defect or disability so that you could enjoy a few years of freedom?
There are too many people in this world that would give a limb if they could be blessed with offspring...consider them before you opt to adopt.
watever the consequences i cant wait to hve a baby of my own, they are soooo cute so so adorable:kiss:
i just love kidsssssssssssss…they r soooo cute…cant wait:)