Since there are nand and saali topics, I figured I should post this question?
How do you deal with Babhi drama, especially when she is super clever and tries to be chalaq and evil just to show her hubby how good she is…eww:grumpy:
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u ignore it and just concentrate on your relationship with your husband. 
the common mistake women make (from my observations) is that they let in-law problems effect their relationship with their husbands. If your husband is good to u regardless of the in-law problems…than thats all that matters. He’ll see her for what she really is…eventually…but only if you are patient.
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was that sarcasm 2 raises a brow :p
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This thread actually questions the opposite of this.
We’ve had so many evil nand/mother-in-law threads.
The thread is asking what to do if your Bhabi is nasty and tries to show her husband (i.e. your brother) that she’s really an angel.
It’s so easy to stereotype nands and MILs in to this evil nasty category.
I’m a nand and my mum is a MIL, whilst neither of us are perfect (who is?), we’re not witches either.
So, ladies, other nands out there, please come on-board and let us defend ourselves!
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My brother is engaged. my bhabi is a nice and decent person and everybody loves her and show her care and affection.
I wish my in-laws wud be like that too:(
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my bhabhi is also a very good person so no complains:no:
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stop whining and live your own life. there s nothing else you can do :D
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Well I do live my own life, and totally mind my business. BUT she likes to be in my face, dunno why. She is always coming up with nonsense crap, and seems to seek attention. I dunno if its cuz of the difference that she was raised in PAK in strict family and I was raised here. I can basically do whatever I want, as long as I tell me my mom where I am going, who I am with. She talks crap about me to my brother that wow ur sister is awaragard...blah blah I wonder where she goes....why the hell does she even care. PS this was before.
Also I mind my own business but....often(before) at dinner parties i'll do most of the preparation and then come time when guests are over, she'll run around and do NOTHING, but make it seem like she did so much and is so tired. Soon as guests leave, she sits donw and doesnt do a damn thing. It used to annoy the hell out of me
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Also I mind my own business but....often(before) at dinner parties i'll do most of the preparation and then come time when guests are over, she'll run around and do NOTHING, but make it seem like she did so much and is so tired. Soon as guests leave, she sits donw and doesnt do a damn thing. It used to annoy the hell out of me
Well I guess there is nothing you can do is there. What you could try is for example, whenever you are having guests over or something like that, dont do anything :D Dont prepare anything. Let her do it?
I know many people can be pigs or *****es but often there is little that can be done about that :)