Re: Baahir ki larkiyan
Narrow minded people exist everywhere. I thought Canada had a large desi community? I honestly don’t understand how people can say that they can’t find a guy in Canada (or even the U.S.). What surprises me even more is when girls go look for someone who was born/raised exclusively in Pakistan…and then are surprised that their (the guys) views are different! Anyway…moving on…
Umm…whether the guy is from Pakistan or Canada…would you really consider marrying a man who believes that a wife should not provide any type of support for her parents? Would you really consider a man who believes that a husband should not help his wife the the housework? You don’t consider yourself lucky that you found out all these traits about this guy BEFORE the marriage? Or would it have been better that these “views” are revealed to you after the nikah?