Only somewhat compatible?? Really? For someone whose been raised here, that’s good enough for you?
The time wasting thing is the reason I think families need to keep an open mind and let the children talk and meet before the parents get too involved with each other. This always happens where parents spend months discussing the future and their wants etc and then the children decide to get involved only to find out its not going to work out. And then everyones surprised and disappointed and hurt on both sides. Why waste time and put the two doing the marrying in contact first. Agreed with paheli, don’t go looking in another country and feel surprised at the different mind sets you come across. I’m surprised that you can’t seem to find educated people where you live, I can understand if you don’t click with someone but to say that there arent educated guys in Canada is an under statement because I don’t know very many Canadian guys that aren’t educated. Having a lot of girls in my family, I have seen many rishtas come through and education isn’t an issue. More so compatibility is…