have u witnessed anyone in ur life who hasnt been through any tests or trails? ..... like any one who got every thing normal in his/her life? .....
I think it all comes sooner or later.
I’ve seen my elders praying , “Ya ALLAH hamen azmaesh ki har ghari (moment) se bacha”..
Also remember grass is always greener on the other side. Others who may seem to be very happy whole their life, we dont know what they go thru
No, I can’t think of any person who never had any azmaaish. When Allah has told us that we will definitely be tried and tested in this life, then it needs to be understood that this includes everyone.
Whether or not someone else is going through an azmaaish or living happily…yeh jaan kar hamari apni zaat pe kya asar hoga? Will such comparisons give us any faida or benefit? No. It’s better to focus on how we should approach our own trials.
Azmaaish doesn’t only take place in the form of a tangible deficiency (such as not having a spouse or being childless or poverty). Azmaish can also take the form of internal demons. Some people have everything in the world…a stable job, tons of money, every material luxury and comfort, a spouse, children, their health…but they might be battling the inner demons of depression, restlessness, emptiness, etc etc. People don’t always speak openly about their issues. Nor can we assume that someone who appears to have it “all” is truly content in their life, nor that it will always be smooth sailing for them.
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But Allah said those who have iman will be tested… so those who dont wobt be tested??? …no eonfercsome enjoy all happiness of this world… muslims in war areas are going through too much … in every aspect of theor life. … but in some other parts of the world others r enjoying all luxuries of life… now i know some will say those r going through azmaish too who have it all … but dnt u think trails of those muslims in war areas are way more than those who have all comforts of this world??.. i know Allah will balance it out in this world or may be akhirah … but stilll some r having it all… n some r suffering way too much… when i ask this from others some say its taqseem of Allah …that some r blessed n some r not… i dnt know if i should say this but this seems unfair… thats no equality…
Before you complain about your azmaish..
Yes there is no equality, that’s abundantly clear.
And there is no wat to make sense of this.
And there is no point in making sense of it either. If you can learn to live and enjoy life acknowledging that you cant make sense of everything - then you can begin to grow.
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Allah chahta to na Saanp hota aur na chirya. Sirf Dinasour hotay.
Allah chahta to bourjois Surah Baqra ki ayat samajh leti aur ulti seedhi hujatten nai nikalti.
Allah chahta to logon ko aqal deke unka istemal bhi sikha deta.
Bus sab kuch Allah hi karay. Bandi kuch na karay
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No haven’t known anyone not been through an aazmaaysh. Some early, some late in life. But all have been through rough and the best in one way or the other at different parts of life.
It’s all a part of life. Your attitude and the energy you radiate despite the “azmaish” determine your direction in life. Our thoughts have a huge impact on our lives, and if you want your situation/azmaish to change you must monitor your thought process.
One can ignore negative energies, look at the bigger picture and focus on the temporariness of a situation OR indulge in self pity, the “why me” rants, and remain stuck in that frame of mind and circumstance. It is human nature to look for a scapegoat but…life is what you make of it.
Start being grateful. Even for the things you do not yet have.
" …If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]…" Quran 14:7
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With a little love you will survive, with a little love you will get by…
Real love, not virtual, Ishq-e-haqeeqi.
i dnt know why some people try n relate all my topics to the previous ones i started … u people dnt have to assume n relate every thing to those topics … people can start threads in general too … n there are some people who think they have better understanding of things so they can look down upon others PERFECT PEOPLE !!!
Yeah have seen
But then there are people who put on fake smile and everything seems happy happy but who knows what’s really inside them
in the end it’s what’s the soul is made of that matters
Those who have it easy usually have empty/dead souls as they havent much seen life / duniya
Kiya faida sochnay say?
Azmaish so as to polished the soul ? what about those who came into the world handicapped? Mentally/ physically?
Life is unfair so no point thinking and comparing
There will be people who will be in worse state then you/ or better then you
That’s how this world nature is, it seems
**I have never seen anyone who has not been through any azmaish, and the life is treating them with all happiness.
Everyone has ups and downs in different aspects of life. The key to happiness for many is how they handle those exams/tests and how they respond in return.
‘Allah, kisi ko de kr azmata hai aur kisi se le kr azmata hai, lekin azmata sb ko hai’… Agr wo hamein na aazmaey tou hum usey yaad kese krein gey?? Agr insan bemar hi na ho, na koi takleef ho tou wo Allah se mangey ga kia?
Saying that Allah tests only those who have Eman is wrong. He tests everyone, the way He likes. Eman walon ko ye faida hai k wo jis takleef se bhi guzrte hain, us k badley un k gunah km kr diye jate hain…
Allah ne apne Anbiya ko bhi azmaya…I read your post in a thread about Yousuf (A.S)…You know that Yaqoob A.S (Father of Yousuf A.S) apne betey ki yaad mein ro ro kr nabeena ho gye thy…
We are talking about a Nabi, who is son of a Nabi, grandson of a Nabi, and a father of Nabi, shaan tou dekho unki…still Allah ne azmaya unko!
Ayyub A.S jin k sabr ki misaal qayamat tk nae mil sakti, unho ne Allah ki azmaish pe sabr kiya. Wo khud bemar thy aur takleef mein thy, shetan ne unse kaha me tmhare samney tmhari aulad ko aapas mein larwa kr qatal krwaon ga, and it happened infront of Ayyub A.S…still he didnt complain.
This world was never meant to be Paradise.
Hamein choti si takleef hoti hai tou hum shikayat shru kr dete hain.
Allah q azmata hai? Ye uski marzi hai…ye dunya Us ne banaei hai, isey kese chalana hai aur q chalana hai usey hum se zada behter pta hai…
Allah says in Quran
‘To each of you We prescribed a law and a method’
Surah 5, Ayah 48
So, the law of nawazish and azmaish for me is different than yours, it cant be same like you…as everyone is living their own life their own way…and everyone is responding to Allah their own way, nicely or badly!
I dont believe in thinking that there is no equality in this world because of Allah ki taqseem…ye Allah k kaam hain, usey pta hai us ne mjhe kia dena hai aur kia nae dena aur ye bhi pta hai q dena hai aur q nae dena hai, ye bhi pta hai kb aur kitna dena hai…
Agr me ye sochun ga falan ko ye mila mjhe nae mila ya falan ko aese test kiya aur us k sath bura kr dia, who I am to say this?? I am not the Creator, I am His creature, so I should behave like creature.**
@OP your answer for Allah chahta to Sanp waha jata hi nahi. Yeh Dunya Alim ul Asbab hai, if everything and everyone was perfect then we would have been in Jannat not this world. We are here for short period of time, and trust me even if someone who is 70-75 years old ask them how was life they will say it passed like a blink of an eye. Sometimes few things does not make any sense but trust me later Allah SWT bless us more and more. I have lots of examples. Pm me if you wanna talk to me.
Mayoosi Gunah hai. We are not getting anything by becoming Mayoos instead just recite Inna lilahe whenever some situation is out of control this Ayat reminds us that how everything Belongs To Allah and we will return to Him.
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