Aurat ki kamai

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Ajj kal tu kuch or hi huwa hai .. larki pherhi likhi bhi hu or ghar ke kaam kaaj bhi sarey atey hun.. larki na huyi massi hu gayi .. perhi likhi massi :smack:

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or rotiyan bhe gol bnani ati hun :cb:
or mou me zuban bhe na ho :aj:

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Micro, and Fariha… both are supporter of Aurat ki Kamai… Kaur kahan hai… unka bhi opinion hona chaiye yahan…

iss par to thread banta hai…

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kaur is herself a working lady and in her family its not a problem

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There is already a thread on it
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/culture-literature-and-linguistics/619095-gol-roti-chokor-paratha.html

btw when did i say I am a supporter of aurat ki kamai? :hmmm:

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listen i am also daughter and i want to become son of my baba.. is mae bura kya hai .. jab betey nahi hutey tu larkiyun ko hi sahra bana perta hai is mae kuch bura nahi hai dehk bhaal ker chalein .. aurat ki kamayi ku bura samjha jata hai kayeen society or families mae lekin larkun ko job na miley wo zayda sahi lag raha huta hai unhey :emmy:

or jab … :mad:

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Not a problem in my family either

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bhai, maiN ne LUXURIES kii baat nahiiN kii hai...aam zarooriyaat kii hii kii hai magar aap Ghaur se dekheN to kia yeh zaroooriyaat insaanii baqaa yaa insaan kii pur sukoon zindagii ke liye zaroorii haiN? aajkal ham log ek race meN bhaag rahe haiN...the definition of 'comfortable life' has completely changed just as the concept of 'speed' has changed. we do NOT need one room for each child with attached bathroom. do we? hamaare aabaa o ajdaad to ek ghar men sab ko paal lete the...Ghareeb se poochhiye k chhat kia hotii hai?

the definition of poverty has changed as well...now, sadly, it's bottomless pit. a poor in the western countries will be considered a middle class in another country and vice versa.

:)

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i am a supporter but reason bhi diye hain .. bila waja no azadi :nono:

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Agree that Luxury definition has been changed, but still education and health (which are basic needs in modern society) are beyond reach of middle class in our part of world.

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It is also okay in my family too…

Okay. you are not supporter… :hmmm:
Why should not they work?

:mirch:

You are right…

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I didn’t get it supporter in which sense?

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pani sey kuch nahi huga :nahi:

mine too :lifey:

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Kabhi kehtay ho supporter hon. aur kabhi kahty ho nahi hon…

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Yaar bhayya angreezi likh diya karain hum na cheez'on kay liyaay....

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In the culture being discussed, a majority of women have never had an individual identity apart from their fathers' and later, their husbands’. The main biological role of women has already been predefined as giving birth and satisfying the family's emotional requisites. At times, women are not even permitted to go out unless their legit reason gets rubber-stamped by their overprotective fathers/brothers/husbands.

Taking into account this proprietorial attitude, it shouldn't be astounding that a feminine income offends most men at a large scale.

1.) Pride factor: Most men differentiate themselves from women solely through their income. An earning woman who maintains a home and nurtures a family at the same time, righteously takes ascendancy over all household responsibilities which will eventually steer her to question a man's overall significance in her life. It threatens a man's ego when he perceives his wife/daughter seizing his traditional role as the dominant bread winner of the family.

2.) Apparently, their women are to be guarded and secured at home without being publicly divulged. The outside world is notorious for being full of bigotry and brutality - a setting entirely perilous and incompatible for women.

3.) Fear of society: People accuse the man for being the lazy lump on a log if his female family members are working. To some extent, it is justified that his insecurities formulate this judgement.

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I am a supporter of giving daugters equal rights and opportunities

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That is true, if one wants to maintain the lifestyle, one needs it

Iske liye bilkul sahi kismat honi chaiye :D, jo generally nahi hoti :frowning:

That was part of tribal society and was good for that time, to sustain in post industrial economy one needs to have post industrial lifestyle, so all these social conditions are feasible in their relevant economic environment :slight_smile:

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If only the scenario had changed and it had also become a gaali to live off the wife and bahu's dowry, life for many a woman would have been better.

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Ajj kal to villages main bhi kaha jata hay ‘Ustaani’ say shadi karni hay :smiley: khud matric naheen kia hota aur double MA pass ustani mil jati hay unn ko :hinna:

Now a days gals have made their life very hard, especially after marriage :nahi: But as for my concern “Kamai” should not be responsibility of girl and men who are marrying with them purely for the sake of money are “Joroo key kamai khanay wallay” :barbie: