The family interference isn’t something I’m going to have to go thru Thank God, have told my parents we will arrange everything ourselves but their input is still welcome for guest lists and all that. Ours is an extreme case but having seen how much damage they can do first hand (my brother’s marriage looks like it’s actually going to be called off just cos my parents and the girls parents won’t agree on the date ) I have no intention of letting the same thing happen to me