you should be happy they care enuff about you to owrry and do so much. they<ve accepted you as hteir dil, they want ot celebrate, ur in laws please themselves, do as they wish, amke them happy. show them you love them. odn<t complain. hsow htem you are agreed upon eveyrhting they do and you like it. start your life on happy note. these are little things, don<t sweat it, don<t waste your time thinking these things. only think positive stuff aboput ur in laws then your life will be truly happy.
it s no biggie. so what if you had to wear soemthing you don<t like for a day. just do it for your in laws sake. if you do things to mkae your in laws happy your husband will love you even more.
all those aunties aren<t that bad. maybe they actually love you.