at what stage will he introduce me to his family?

[blessed2006]

Re: at what stage will he introduce me to his family?

@catwomen

Hello everyone…hope everyone ok on here maybe a few of you will remember me as being the gori girl dating a pakistani guy…back then things were not good..but things seem a lot better now…so I would like to thankyou all for your support!However…there is just one thing…is it true that a muslim man will only bring you home to meet with his family if he 110 per cent plans to marry you because of the no dating in islam etc…I have asked the reason and it is due to the fact that because I am female his family would make assumptions and filter it back to his parents in pakistan…well this is what he says…sometimess I feel like he is hiding something from me…other times I can totally relate to the reason of no dating etc and can only take a girl home once they are pretty sure they want to marry that person…a decision in which he is still trying to figure out!(Thanks for all ur helop btw!!)

no its not true for all muslim men…since if he is a good muslim then he wouldnot have been dating and all that.

now it could be two reasons

1. probably he has kind of spoken to his family and they have said no for you so now he is hesitant in telling you thus saying that the family “might” say/think this or that

2. it could be that he had no intention of marrying you at all and now wants to move on so making excuses.

its hard to say what exactly is the reason. but my advice is to talk to him in clear words and ask what are his plans. ask him that “you said i am a female thus your family will make assumptions about me so does that mean we cannot marry?”…i am sure to this he will either say a no or will say something like no wait i will talk to them etc etc. i’ll say donot wait too long u should probably just move on. good luck