At what phase

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Re: At what phase

@Khan4Life

Your story is kinda same like mine. It also hit me at golden years of my life around three years ago when I lost a precious relationship. And later I realized that I was the only one in that relation from the start, so why feel self pity. I lagged in my education, career everything looked like all done for me but I stand up, put myself back and started to move again. Lot of positives things happened with me after, my Belief on Allah become stronger because he saved me going any further in that relation that could cause more problems, revealed some faces, give me another chance to start the life and now I’m better, stronger than before out of that hell. What I did is started to pray as much as I can, not saying 5 times right away but if you can it’s better and ask forgiveness and be thankful for whatever you have and leave everything on Allah because he knows what’s best for us because we humans sometimes think that this is best for us but not in the eyes of Allah and try to hang out in good company, friends who can help you, motivate you because in my case friends, family helped me a lot. See, now my approach in life for finding the right spouse is changed. If I’ll look for for my spouse in near future InshAllah, she has to know about Deen. For me if somebody follows the religion properly then he/she will carry every relation truthfully and responsibly whether as a son, brother, daughter, wife etc.
If anything we can do please ask freely and just think positive. Insh Allah everything will be fine.

Good to know you are on track, and I’m not the only one. Good luck to you!