Assistance needed for our dying brother...

**Assalamu alaikum **

**Brothers and Sisters **

**Please find below details of a brother, Leslie Craddle who is terminally ill in a Hospice in London. **

PLEASE brothers, especially those in and around London… visit him, this is from the rights of one Muslim over another and EVEN MORE so because he obviously needs support and his non Muslim families have requested that Muslims visit him. We need to reassure him that He is indeed beloved to Allah as among the shuhada are those that pass away as a result of stomach diseases…

Asalaamu alaikum,
Indeed to Allah we belong and to Him we will return
I bring you sad news of a revert brother who is terminally ill. His
name is Leslie Craddle. He is dying of stomach cancer with which he has been suffering for 7 years. All Praise to Allah, he converted to Islam 2 years ago and when my husband last spoke to him his faith seemed strong. He is, however, not getting enough support from the Muslims. He and his non-Muslim family have requested that muslims visit him, but very few brothers have visited. He is very weak and asleep most of the time from a combination of exhaustion and pain killers. When asked to make dhikr, he responded that he was too tired.

Brother Julaibib also met his mother today who does not know how the
Muslims take care of their dead. She did mention that she wants someone responsible to take charge and that he musn’t be forgotten or she will have him buried at her local church. So, there are three requests:

  1. Please encourage the men of your family to visit him so that he
    can constantly be encouraged to make dhikr and remember Allah and
    prepare for his meeting with Him. He is now in St Michael’s Ward, Trinity Hospice, 30 Clapham Common North Side, London, SW4 0RN.
    020 7787 1000.

He can only tolerate short visits so you need to plan for a 5-10 min visit. Visitors can just turn up at any time and the receptionist will show them where to go.

  1. Sisters: Please send cards, letters etc., and encourage your
    children to do so. It doesn’t need to be complicated: a dua with a picture drawn by a child are a beautiful and inspiring combination. Address: Leslie Craddle, St. Michael’s Ward, Trinity Hospice, 30 Clapham Common North Side, London, SW4 0RN.

  2. A couple of brothers are looking into what can be done for his
    funeral…
    Please keep an ear out in case requests are made for donations to
    cover the cost etc, also for ladies to attend the janazah prayer and speak to his female relatives. I will send out more information insha’ Allah when necessary. Insha’ Allah this is the time to show that we have a community that is capable of establishing the rites of Islam and that we can rise to the challenges and difficulties that our community throws us.
    Please pass this information to anyone that can help…particularly
    if you know anyone retired, on-leave, etc, who has time to visit.

And Allah is the source of all help. May he keep us firm on His Deen in our last moments
Your sister Joanna

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Sorry to hear about this. Is this the uhh normal protolcol for Muslims?

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Aww, thats so sad. I would visit him but I dont live in London.

May Allah make it easy on him and his family, Ameen.

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ameen.

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Why are people not visiting him?

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I'll ask my friends in London to go visit him.

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Isnt it wonderful how is immediate family (who is non-muslim) is respecting his wishes and making sure he gets contact with muslims and then ultimately gets a proper Muslim funeral. I forwarded this to my contacts in england and urged them to visit him.

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aaaaaaaaahhhhhhh that is so sad........................

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That’s so sad, may Allah bless our brother Leslie and cure him or give him the patience to cope.

I’d go visit him but I’m milesss away from London but Insha’Allaah he will be in our prayers.

All brothers who are around that area please visit him, it’s the way of our Prophet :saw: to visit the sick even if they be Kaafirs, and this is our own brother.

Devoted2Allaah does your hubby know him? Please ask him to stay close to the brother, read Surah Yaseen over him and when he has gone to Allaah to arrange for a bath, shroud, funeral prayer and a grave for the brother. Maybe you guys can set up an account where we can all donate something if you need financial help for buying a plot in the Muslim cemetry?